The Most Difficult Quality each Sign cannot Avoid or Let go

People pleasing libra cannot let go of this irking trait. They’ve heard it a billion times, but they hate to be unlikable. On the other hand, we have resentful Taurus, who will hold a grudge until the end of the world. It is clear that we all have major pitfalls embedded into our DNA. Some have a hard time jumping out of their comfort zone, dealing with overthinking or perfectionism. Find out where you fall below. 

Aries (March 21st-April 19th): Impatience. Let go of the need for everything to happen literally right now. If you are always rushing, you may miss out on the amazing things that naturally take a bit longer to unfold. Learn to exercise patience, and you’ll be rewarded in the long run.

Taurus (April 20th-May 20th): Resentment. It is important to let go of those pent-up resentments you are holding on to so tightly. Forgiveness is healing and necessary in order to move forward in life. Letting go of grudges from the past will open up beautiful possibilities for your future.

Gemini (May 21st-June 20th): Overthinking. You live in your head but it’s important to quiet your brain once in a while. If you are always getting caught up in your own thoughts, you risk missing out on the now. Take some time to relax, slow down, and enjoy the present–without putting too much thought into it.

Cancer (June 21st-July 22nd): Comfort Zone.

You know that saying “Life begins at the edge of your comfort zone”? It’s totally true! Now is the perfect time to give yourself a gentle push toward trying new things and having new experiences. You’ll be surprised with what you find–and what you find out about yourself.

Leo (July 23rd-August 22nd): Ego. At the risk of sounding harsh, everything is not necessarily about you. Maybe funding for your department got cut, maybe your art show got a negative review–these things happen; it doesn’t mean the world thinks less of you. Realizing this will help you maintain your center and not be so intensely affected by other people’s actions and opinions.

Virgo (August 23rd-September 22nd): Perfectionism. It’s time to let go of the expectation of perfection you place on yourself and others. Everyone has flaws and really, there is no such thing as “perfect.” Learning to accept situations and people (yourself included) just the way they are will vastly improve your quality of life and help you feel more relaxed and content.

Libra (September 23rd-October 22nd): People Pleasing. You take the term “people pleaser” to a whole new level, and now is the perfect time to let that go! You have to realize that it’s impossible to make everyone else happy, and you risk losing yourself in the process of trying. Focus on prioritizing and valuing your own needs–you deserve to be happy too.

Scorpio (October 23rd-November 21st): Coveting. You work hard to get what you want, but sometimes life does not turn out exactly the way you had planned it. Instead of dwelling on what you don’t have, focus your energy on appreciating the wonderful things that are already present in your life. This will give you the clarity to see what is truly important and what you really want.

Sagittarius (November 22nd-December 21st): Competition. Let go of your need to constantly compete with yourself and those around you. You can only do your best at any given moment, and guess what? That’s enough. Ridding yourself of these impossibly high standards will improve both your self-esteem and your relationships.

Capricorn (December 22nd-January 19th): Control. Give yourself permission to loosen the reigns and go with the flow of life. It may come as a shocker, but control is simply an illusion and you do yourself a disservice by holding onto it so tightly. Trust us, letting go of control won’t cause the world to fall apart; in fact, you’ll gain a new-found sense of freedom and joy.