Everyone wants the right relationship, but most people tend to focus on the wrong things. If you want to have a happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship in your life, you need to go about it in the right way.
If Buddha would start dating he would probably do it quite differently than the millions of singles who are now sitting on the couch looking via Internet for the right one.
Maybe you would be so overwhelmed by self-pity and loneliness that would be the reason for your search for the one. Your own feeling of who you are would then be forgotten.
If we take Buddha as our example, what would he do energetically to find a new partner? Of course, we know that Buddha would never really date, but in this story, he signifies spiritual dating.
Throw Your Wish For Love To The Universe
The power of ‘the secret‘ thought, Whatever wish you send up to the cosmos through you heart and spirit you will get back multiplied.
Are you sending up fear of being yourself in a relationship? Do you have fear of showing who you really are? Or are you afraid to give up the freedom that you have?
If you feel that you would rather be alone, you will subconsciously not attract a new partner (definitely not the one).
What type of man/woman do you want to attract?
What should be their most important personality so that you are both compatible?
Do you want a serious relationship with marriage in mind or should it be a lat-relationship?
A partner who is always on the go because of his/her job; friends? Or someone who is more at home?
Maybe as you lay in bed or taking a walk in the woods, sitting with your eyes closed you can concentrate on what type of relationship you are really looking for or if it is what you want.
If you keep doubting, the universe will not be able to understand what you really want.
Send up a few times clearly what you really want so the universe understands what to do. Then let it go, the universe will then have the chance to answer your wishes.
Be Prepared To Be And Explore Yourself
To manifest a loving, honest and true relationship, you must know who you are and what you really want in this life. If you don’t know, how do you expect someone else will? By knowing who you are and what you want your choices become easier, you will find that it is much more fun being with that special person.
Almost everyone finds it difficult to show who they really are even though they want to. It’s mostly because they flee from their true feelings, listen to others, or don’t take the time to find out who they really are.
What makes you happy, what type of sports do you like? What are your limitations, what are your hobbies? What do you really like? What don’t you like? What kind of life suits you best? How are you happy?
When you know this another can adopt to your way of living, they will know what you want and accept. They can then be an addition to your life.
Remember a relationship is an addition to your life and not the other way around.
You should be balanced and satisfied with your own life. This is important before looking for or starting a relationship. If you are happy with your own life you will attract like-minded partners with the same energy flow because a relationship is based on equivalency and not on role-playing.