Work settings can sometimes get overwhelming for introverts, but the good news is that a few, simple things can help you power up at work, and give your absolute best. Introverts can always successfully power up at work, but you need to know what can actually help you do that.
Introverts are really no different from everyone else. We have our strengths and our weaknesses. When we use our strengths like creativity, listening, thoughtfulness, and team loyalty, we can become great project managers, engineers, salespersons, artists, leaders, not to mention spouses and parents, just like extroverts. We just have different ways of doing things.
One of the starkest differences is that our energy can drain when we are called upon to be social or to be the center of attention. Extroverts often thrive in those same situations. It doesn’t mean we can’t do them, it just means it’s often out of our comfort zone.
So how do introverts succeed when life, and work in particular, often involves working with others, making rapid decisions, and voicing our opinions?
We must learn to manage our personal battery each day.
The Energy Equation
Your Battery Gauge = Energy Charged – Energy Drained
Each of our batteries is about the same size. When our battery is full, we have the physical energy and also mental space to do things. When our battery is getting low, we get more sluggish, tired, impatient, and even irritable. It is important to gauge where your battery level is during the day.
As your battery drains, you can gauge how much longer you have, like Cinderella at the Ball. When that energy drains, you better find shelter in your comfort zone or you may crash. Crashing can be ugly – totally removed from conversations, uncomfortable, short-tempered, or even panic mode.
Beware of the Danger Zone
The Danger Zone is that “red” level on your fuel gauge that indicates you are almost out of gas. You always want to avoid the danger zone.
What is so draining? I find that the further I get from my comfort zone, the quicker I get drained. Saying “hi” or chatting with a co-worker or school parents can be a slow drain. Being part of a contentious debate, being unprepared for a meeting, or leading a presentation in front of dozens drains my battery rapidly. It’s important to understand what drains you most so you can use the tools below to avoid the danger zone.
Recharge your Battery
How can you refill your battery? This can be through rest, reading, music, exercise, meditation, hobbies like art or writing, as well as through those solitary menial tasks that give your brain a bit of a rest while also providing a sense of accomplishment. Examples could be filing, planning your calendar, or sending some quick emails.
Not all activities recharge your battery at the same pace. Some activities are superchargers. They quickly recharge your battery. You may only need five minutes of reading or walking or journaling to boost your energy. Other activities may slowly elevate your energy level.
When to Recharge?
Find time to recharge. Regardless of whether you go to the office (at home these days) or are busy with your kids all day, you can’t wait until 6 pm to recharge. By then, your battery is empty and you likely weren’t happy or very productive in the afternoon.
Carve out some time throughout the day. Walk the floor or campus alone. Jot down a few thoughts in your journal. Spread out those menial yet satisfying tasks in between tense meetings or engagements.
Don’t schedule back-to-back meetings. Give yourself at least 15 minutes between meetings and split that time between preparing for the next meeting so it is less stressful, and just relaxing to collect yourself and recharge a bit. If you have to travel across campus or across town for meetings, provide ample time. Reserve sometime after meetings for a bit of solitude to bring your energy level back up.
You may also choose to grab lunch by yourself in your office, in the cafe, or off-campus. When I learned this trick, I initially felt strange. Are people watching me? Do they think I’m weird? Do they think I’m antisocial or pompous? But then I realized how valuable that time was for me, especially in the middle of a chaotic day. I recognized I had a lot more energy in the afternoon and others benefited too when I was full of energy.
Best ways to keep your battery going:
1. Plan your week on your calendar.
2. Remove items that are not necessary, especially on packed days. Don’t overdo it.
3. Review your calendar the day before.
4. Ensure you have time between meetings.
5. Schedule time before meetings to prepare and reenergize.
6. Strategically place “recovery” time after draining meetings or social time.
7. Treat yourself to a lunchtime getaway – just you and your book, journal, or peace & quiet.
8. Boost your energy at the end of the workday. Review your next day’s calendar before you leave and seek a lower-stress commute.
9. Wind down at night and get some quality sleep (7-8 hours or more).
10. Grow your recharging toolkit: read, journal, music, art, menial tasks, walk, exercise, phone game, whatever you enjoy…
No More Leftovers
For years, I would come home drained. I slid into the couch and often was unable to join the family conversation. My family got whatever was leftover. Sound familiar?
Before the end of your workday, review your calendar for the next day. Be sure to create space. Schedule your walk or lunch out. This will give you some comfort that you have exerted control over your schedule and you have a manageable day ahead.
Being aware of our energy level is half the battle. The other half is carving out small bits of time during the day to recharge. If you manage your energy battery during the day, your day and your night will be much more satisfying for everyone.
Check out more insights and tips for introverts at www.BeyondIntroversion.com and The Beyond Introversion YouTube Channel. Their most popular quizzes include The Introvert’s Superpower Quiz and The Introvert’s Leadership Quiz. Both are quick, free, confidential, and provide personalized feedback to help you learn and grow. Steve hopes you’ll make Beyond Introversion a part of your Introversion journey.
Written By Steve Friedman Originally Appeared In Beyond Introversion