They imagine how their lives would be, how they are as people, and what might they like to do. This is why, you will always find the introverts standing in the corner of the room at parties, and quietly studying and trying to understand people.
7. Listening to some good music.
Introverts are more sensitive than others, which is why they feel everything more deeply than others. They tend to soak in everything that goes around them and feel it very deeply in their hearts and souls. Introverts love listening to music, as the right kind of music tugs at their heartstrings, and touches their deepest core.
They lose themselves in music and feel free when they are surrounded by it. Music is a way for them to get in touch with their inner selves, and understand the deeper things at play.
8. Exploring unknown and unseen places.
If you are an introvert, you know what this means. An introvert has the heart and soul of an explorer, who is always looking to discover unseen places. Introverts love to explore undiscovered terrains, places that are hidden gems, and most importantly, locations that not a lot of people visit. It is in these places that introverts feel peaceful and free to be completely themselves.
Such places do not remind them of anything, and that is what they like best. It is in these places, where an introvert’s mind is completely peaceful and quiet.
9. Shopping alone or on the internet.
Because shopping with friends is SO stressful. They make you more inclined to buy things you don’t need, you’re always worried about who’s bored and who’s having fun, you have to try on everything in front of them, and most importantly, they might end up judging your sartorial choices. This is why, most of the time you prefer shopping alone, or on the internet.
Online shopping gives you the freedom and convenience of not having to leave your home, and buy whatever you want without any judgment from others. Online shopping is structured and organized so that it is easier for you to buy what you need, without feeling confused.
10. Writing your heart out.
Because it’s so much easier for you to process your thoughts by writing them down than by speaking them. Writing is fantastic because it doesn’t involve anyone else directly, but is indirectly one of the most intimate forms of communication. As it is also in their nature to consider carefully what to say before they actually open their mouths, writing seems to be a better communication channel.
Writing is better than speaking since it grants them more time to consolidate their thoughts before they respond. For these reasons, introversion gravitates one towards writing and had produced many of the world’s greatest playwright, poets, and writers, from William Shakespeare, J. R. R. Tolkien, Emily Dickinson to J. K. Rowling.
Most people might not understand introverts and how they function, but that doesn’t make them odd or weird. Introverts are just different from extroverts, and no one is better than the other.
At some point, you’re probably going to encounter someone who thinks differently than you do. This does not necessarily mean you have to “fake it.” Who you are and how you work is not wrong. It’s simply a matter of adapting to a society that contains other people. Sometimes an introvert will need to deal with being around people even if they don’t particularly want to, and sometimes an extrovert will need to accept a lack of stimulus.
Be yourself and love yourself. Learn how your friends and loved ones work, how they differ from you, and make your preferences known.