Don’t Get Into Him Too Soon – You Aren’t Winning his Love This Way

What’s this thin line that separates the way a Man and a Woman loves? It’s attention. While we woman feel like a Princess when showered with it – On the other hand it’s a Game spoiler when it comes to men. You send him mushy messages all the time, keep calling or keep being touchy – hat wouldn’t win his love my Dear – and it would never.

Men are Hunters, want what we call that Space, and this is where their Masculinity breeds. This extra space is what makes a woman appear attractive to them – like a trophy to win.

This “gap” is essential to pose a challenge to them. They need to feel the thrill of a chase and the victory that follows it. Woman, Change your moves. Be a kind of riddle he needs to solve. Otherwise, he might get bored soon.

This doesn’t mean you act mean or be too hard or change yourself. It’s just that you shouldn’t get into him too soon. Go slow. There is nothing wrong in being fascinated to someone, but don’t melt and be mushy.

So, till you are sure he is serious about you, just play your cards safe. Here is how you should go about it.

1. Don’t Get In Touch With Him
Let him do that. But when he does, make sure you respond.

2. Don’t Start Cooking For Him
Leave those things for the future, until you are sure the relationship is moving in the right direction.

3. Just Because He Wants To Hang Out, Don’t Be Available All The Time
Remember, you have other things to do as well.

4. Don’t Act As Per His Likes And Dislikes
If you don’t like the place he wants to take you out for dinner, just express your disapproval.

5. Don’t Give Him A Back Massage
Not until you have been in the relationship for quite some time.

6. Don’t Express Your Feelings First
Let him tell you how much he likes you.

7. Don’t Make Him The Priority In Your Plans
You should be able to do absolutely well even without him.

8. Avoid Using Emoticons That Show Mushy Emotions
Use smileys, but no hearts. Especially, no hearts struck with an arrow.

9. Don’t Have sex Or Spend Night In His Bed
A big NO, until you are sure he is in love with you.

10. Don’t Buy Him Gifts Or Clothes
Not until you’re in a committed relationship.

11. Don’t Reveal To Him That He Occupies Your Thoughts And Conversation All The Time
Keep it to yourself, if you really fall for each other, there will be a point when he will know it even without your telling.

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