Nothing is worse than having a low self-esteem. How you feel about and what you think about yourself determines how you live your life. Low self-esteem makes you feel absolute worst about yourself which affects your will and motivation to do anything worthwhile in life. You can easily spiral down in the dark pit of negative thinking restricted by your damaging and limiting beliefs. This is why it is crucial to build self-esteem and have a high opinion about who you are and what you are capable of.
“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” – Buddha
High self-esteem generates from a genuine love for yourself. When you love yourself, you not only feel great about yourself but it also gives you the confidence to overcome the challenges of life. Building your self-esteem gives you inner stability and you find peace and happiness within yourself.
If you think you are suffering from low self self-esteem, then there are countless things you can do to build your self-esteem in no time.
Realizing your hidden potential
Self-esteem is a driving force behind our confidence, how we see and feel about ourselves, and encompasses our sense of value, significance, and self-worth.
Research has shown that over 80% of people struggle with varying levels of low self-esteem. Yet, having a solid sense of self-esteem has the chance to positively impact and powerfully transform every area of your life – from your relationships to your career, from your health and well-being to your fulfillment and levels of success.
A deep feeling of self-esteem is something that needs to grow and be nurtured over time. In this article, I will show you the things you can do right now to improve your self-esteem. Then, you will realize your hidden potential and your self-worth.
“Self-esteem is as important to our well-being as legs are to a table. It is essential for physical and mental health and for happiness.” – Louise Hart
While the dictionary defines it as “confidence in one’s own worth or abilities; self-respect”, put simply, self-esteem is the overall sense or feeling you have about your own self-worth or self-value.
Self-confidence, on the other hand, is more about how you feel about your abilities and will vary from situation to situation. You can have great self-esteem (feeling good about yourself overall) but low self-confidence about a particular situation or event (e.g. public speaking). Or, maybe you’ve got great self-confidence in an area (e.g. a sport that you play) but low self-esteem overall.
A strong and solid sense of self-esteem comes from deep within. From a belief in your importance, your value and your worthiness.
Root causes of low self-esteem
Low self-esteem can stem from many areas. It is largely influenced by how other people see and treat us, and our relationships, which is why the influence of our parents has the most significant impact on our self-esteem.
1. An unhappy childhood –
Those who grew up with critical, abusive or neglectful parents are more likely to face challenges with their own self-worth; while those who experienced acceptance, approval, and affection are more likely to have a higher sense of self-value.
2. Traumatic experiences –
Lower levels of self-esteem can also stem from bad experiences or traumatic events, such as something someone said to you or something someone did. Essentially, it can stem from anything that has brought up feelings of shame, guilt or lack of worth.
3. Experiences of failure –
For some, lower self-esteem is connected to their success and accomplishments or lack thereof – including experiences of failure, not achieving goals or expectations.
4. Negative self-talk –
Many ‘cases’ of low self-esteem are perpetuated by negative self-talk. This could be a story that you have created yourself or that someone else created for you long ago that you continue to believe.