How A Gratitude Journal Can Help You Fight Negative Thinking

Sean Grover LCSW

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Gratitude Journal Help Fight Negative Thinking

Negative thinking is something no human being is immune from, and everyone has negative thoughts sometime or the other. But there is light at the end of the tunnel; when you feel your negative thinking bogging you down, keeping a gratitude journal can help you fight it and stay positive.

Every morning I woke up with dread. No gratitude in sight.

A feeling of heaviness that invaded my thoughts, weighed me down during the day and tortured me at night. I zombied my way through the world with little hope that life could change. I even questioned the value of living.

My family was hit by a series of crises, events that were irreversible. My wife and I had always been cheerleaders for each other but we were both knocked down this time. We didn’t know how to help ourselves or one another. She felt equally defeated.

 “Why me? Why are these things happening?”

My mind searched for relief and only found more hopelessness. All the tools I learned as a psychotherapist failed me. I felt like a fraud.

Then early one morning after I spent a sleepless night tormented by my own menacing thoughts, I decided I had to do something different. I had no choice. I couldn’t go on living demoralized.

On a whim, I pulled an old notebook from a shelf and sat at my kitchen table. I opened it to a blank page and wrote four words: “I am grateful for…”

Honestly, I didn’t know what I was doing it. It was a pure impulse. A part of me resisted, mocked the entire exercise. But a healthier part of me pushed me forward, encouraged me to continue writing, keep trying to list all the good in my life.

Related: 7 Laws of Gratitude That Will Change Your Life

Birth of My Gratitude Journal

Every morning, I re-read the journal and added to it. I started to carry it with me. I opened it sporadically during the day and wrote. Over time, a truly amazing thing started to happen. The events in my life didn’t change but my attitude did. I felt lighter.

My gratitude journal forced me to look beyond my pain at the moment and see at the bigger picture. It challenged my negative thinking and gave me a broader perspective.

Often pain seduces you into believing it will never end. For me, all pain is personal, so the solution had to be too. If I was generating negative thoughts, I had the power to generate positive ones as well.

I don’t expect you to believe me. I have no scientific proof that a gratitude journal can help you. I have no statistics to quote or studies to share. I can only say that it made a big difference in my life. It helped me when I thought nothing could.

Starting a Gratitude Journal

Over time, the journal evolved. I divided gratitude into three simple groups: people, places, and things:

People:

Who do you love? Are you grateful for in your life? Make a list as detailed as possible. What qualities does each person bring to your life? Every if the person has passed away, what did they give you?

Places:

List places that have filled you with joy. They could be current places or memories. For me, during my childhood, recollections of visiting my grandmother’s house were packed with happiness. As I wrote down memories, I found myself smiling. The memories were surprisingly fresh and accessible.

Related: The Importance Of Gratitude, And Best Ways To Practice It

Things:

List anything you like; pets, a beloved book, a favorite meal, a song. Nothing is small or insignificant. If you love it and it brings you happiness, it matters.

The internet is full of gratitude journal suggestions and prompts. (See “How to Be Grateful Without Rolling Your Eyes”) You can use them as a jumping-off point, print them out, or reference suggestions. Or you can find a notebook or piece of paper and start right now. Once you begin writing, don’t stop until you fill the page.

You’ll be surprised that even in the darkest places you still have the power to generate light.

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Written By Sean Grover
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A gratitude journal can help you immensely with negative thinking, and unless you try it once, you won’t understand just how amazing it really is. Writing in your gratitude journal will help you fight your negative thinking and all those negative thoughts that keep on cropping up in your mind. It will help you instill gratefulness and some much-needed positivity.

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Sean Grover LCSW

Sean Grover, LCSW is a psychotherapist, speaker, and author with 25 years of experience. He maintains one of the largest group therapy practices in the U.S. and leads over 300 groups a year in his practice, in addition to monthly workshops in clinics, medical centers, youth organizations, and schools. For more information about Sean, visit www.SeanGrover.com

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