What Is Feminine Energy? Top 3 Ways For Successful Women To Be In Their Feminine Energy

What Is Feminine Energy

As high-achieving women of this modern-day and age, we all live in a highly masculinized world. My work as a top international dating and relationship expert rests on the fundamental premise that living and connecting with our feminine energy is the key to achieving love transformation in our lives and romantic relationships.

I firmly believe that this connection we women have with our feminine energy is our single biggest power in romantic relationships and around our men.

Unfortunately, it is also a power that is largely neglected and ignored in today’s world. We are all women of an era where the messages of femininity have been mocked and equated with being a doormat, or somehow being subservient to men.

This, of course, isn’t true by any means.

These are myths that are propagated by those that have an incomplete knowledge of this concept and a lack of awareness on what it truly means to be connected with this Universal energy, endowed to us women by nature.

It helps to remember that, when we’re talking about feminine energy, we are reconnecting you to that force that already exists within you. Hence, you don’t essentially have to change yourself, but rather embrace those womanly parts and elements within you, that Universal energy has already gifted to you.

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What Is Feminine Energy?

For the purpose of clarity, let us revisit the definition of feminine energy.

It is the “being” energy, in contrast to the masculine “doing energy”. When you are in this “being” energy, you are in the receptive mode and allow your man, experiences, and life itself, to fill you up. This is again opposite to masculine energy, which is a forward-moving, penetrative force that “gets things done”.

When you are in your feminine energy, you are not busy doing, but instead enjoying that which is before you.

This idea of “not doing and just being” may feel like an alien and almost annoying concept at first, especially to those of us who have trained ourselves to be in our masculine 24/7. However, it helps to remember that reconnecting with our femininity is the key to restoring that balance that is missing today from so many women’s lives.

Yes, you want that external career success, but you also want that amazing, fulfilling relationship – that is what a balanced life looks like, and that is what reconnecting with your feminine energy will help you achieve.

The Benefits Of Being In Your Feminine Energy

A woman who knows how to connect with her feminine side will naturally and effortlessly be irresistible to men, or to her current partner. This is true, even for highly successful and powerful women.

Look at my own life as an example. I run a heart-centred, super successful company that helps powerful women find and keep love. I have a six-figure salary and I am a CEO, and yet I am a mother to a toddler and a wife to a man who adores the ground I walk on.

Learning how to balance my highly developed, ambitious masculine side with the softness and receptive energy of femininity has been the game-changer for me. This is why I feel so passionate about bringing forward this message to other strong and successful women, who are struggling in dating and relationships and somehow feel they have to give up on their career success or play “dumb” in order to attract or keep a good man in their life.

Short answer: You don’t. 

You just have to learn how to reconnect with your feminine energy.

High quality men are by nature designed to be instinctively drawn towards a woman who is exuding femininity and confidence. And when I say confidence, I don’t necessarily mean a loud, boisterous, boastful confidence that many of us strong and educated women have mastered in our boardrooms and meetings.

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Sami Wunder

Sami Wunder is a leading international relationship and dating expert who specializes in working with ambitious, high-achieving women, helping them attract lasting romantic love. Her clients range from Hollywood celebrities to UK TV stars to CEOs, bankers, lawyers, doctors, renowned authors, leading entrepreneurs, and more. She’s a leading authority when it comes to dating and relationships and is a sought-after expert in the media, appearing regularly in the Business Insider, Forbes and Time magazines, Glamour, the Daily Mail, The Metro, Cosmopolitan, and many more. Her core work philosophy is empowering ambitious women in their love lives who are looking to attract their soulmates, teaching high-value dating behaviors, feminine energy, and the importance of dating with boundaries and an empowered diva mindset.View Author posts