I’m not suggesting that we settle for an unhealthy relationship, nor am I suggesting that there is necessarily only one. I am saying that we complicate things with mountains of questions which can create doubt and confusion.
Sometimes the answer is obvious if we simplify. If we can take a step back and answer these two questions honestly and fearlessly I believe the answer as to whether we should be with our chosen one, or not, will be obvious. If we really and truly-give-up-a-kidney-kind of love our partner and we recognize that our lives are better as a team then with a little attention and a lot of commitment everything else will fall into place