Severing Cords With Your Soulmate: Embracing New Beginnings

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Severing Cords With Your Soulmate: Love Lost, Lessons Gained

Soulmates are meant to be with you for life. But sometimes severing cords with your soulmate might be the only option left for you. Not every soulmate relationship is meant to last, and you might not realize it at times, but it will be for your own good in the long run. You just need to have faith in yourself and the Universe.

It is only when you are with your own “one-and-only” love that you realize the true meaning of this often overused and abused four-letter term. They make you realize the gravitas of being someone’s soulmate and vice versa.  

Initially, thanks to the immediate connection that ignites passions we see the shared vulnerable nakedness of each other; that is our souls and things that we never shared come tumbling out. And because we feel loved, we see good in the universe too, an extension.

This very connection helps us reach energy levels quite beyond our reach normally. This energy is what slowly makes them a part of you and your existence in general.

This deep and profound connection happens at a spiritual level and you will see how you’ll feel things for one another that cannot be put into words ever.

Seems perfect? It actually is. At least at one point in time.

Related: True Soulmates Don’t Meet Our Every Wish And Need

Severing Cords With Your Soulmate: Why Would Someone Want To Do This?

That’s our next point in concern.

Well, like everything in life, most things often come with a limited lifespan. More often than not, when people grow in their spiritually designated trajectory, they do it apart from one another.

This stripping of a seemingly inseparable part of you might seem heart-wrenching and it is, no use sugar-coating it, but it will help you grow. It will open your eyes to a spirituality that is never visible till a huge chunk of you is hollowed out.

The thing to remember is, though physically separated, your souls are forever one. The task of growing is still something you both share. And because of this connection, you will still feel the other’s pain.

Though our intentions behind suggesting separation are good that is not wanting to hurt our partners, soulmates, or spouses, we end up damaging our own selves. After a while, we realize we no longer recognize ourselves.

We can occupy our mind and heart with work, things, other relationships – even good, loving ones, but within the deepest part of our soul, we know that which is missing.

And after a while, realization dawns that what we were running away from was not them, but our own Self.

The separation is just as painful as people tell you; even more, in all probability. You will be preoccupied with the other’s face and smallest details.

Often the pain of the separation and the many obstacles to the union is so unbearable that we want a way out of this new “reality”. Initially, we pray that it will just go away in time and we can get back to “normal”.

We numb our feelings in self-preservation.

The force that joins your souls together is however unbreakable. You can weaken it, yes, but breaking them is impossible.

Your final union may be delayed, but never indefinitely.

Quoting St Mark’s gospel, “What God has joined together, let man not put asunder.”

The rubber band may stretch but it will always pull back.

Now coming to the most important aspect of this entire thing.

What Happens During Such Separations?

Heartbreak is one of the most painful experiences in life and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. But, if you are severing cords with your soulmate, it is probably for a legitimate reason.

And it must be unavoidable and absolutely necessary. Because no one wants to put themselves through heartbreak, and end a soulmate relationship.

When you reach the state where you realize that you need to cut cords with your soulmate and that is the only option, and reconnection is not possible at this point at least, you should fall back unto yourself. You should reflect and introspect and regain touch with your own psyche and get a grip on your own life.

That reconnection with the self is of the essence and is of utmost importance and would be instrumental to the eventual reunion too.

The immediate aftermath of severing cords with your soulmate is excruciatingly painful. Often times physically as well as mentally or spiritually. Feelings will burn trails like thunder in your brain and leave you dumbfounded and numb.

Related: 12 Things Your Soulmate Wants You To Know Before You Meet

That’s when you surrender and try to find the meanings you missed out on. That’s when you try to reconnect to the spiritual energy you once felt connected to. However, this is not something under our control or will.

These things take time and patience and a lot of it. You need to love and accept the person you see in the mirror; with all his/her flaws and faults at that.

Rest assured however about one thing: that is even if you have committed every single mistake in the book, at one point in time, everything will be rewarded or at least forgiven. Soulmate relationships guarantee maturity and spiritual growth and at one point you accept things like they are.

Remember and accept the fact that at some point you have to acknowledge the connection and also the growth that comes with it.

There are some bonds that are never severed, and connections are retained one way or the other; under one label or the other and that is important enough to remember too.

Lastly and most importantly, after you are done severing cords with your soulmate, you will understand that you did love them or still do and your actions never affected that in any way. It’s a lesson and an important one at that.

Have you ever had to cur cords with your soulmate? Do let us know your thoughts in the comments down below!

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