No matter how beautiful your relationship might sound, remember that a fairy tale has its dragons too. At many points of time in a relationship, we experience insecurities regarding our partners. These sudden thoughts might be true or might not be. They might be due to some lack of understanding regarding our partner or it could be our instincts.
The challenge is to understand which message is by our instinct and which by our insecurities.
To remove this confusion, psychologist and body language expert Philip Adcock came up with some easy tricks which will help us judge whether our partner is cheating on us or not.
Before learning the tricks, we should understand that these tricks do not necessarily conclude that our partner is cheating on us but they do reveal whether they are lying or not.
Here are 5 Tricks That Can Reveal If Your Partner Is Cheating On You
(1) Make direct eye –contact:
Eyes always tell the truth. They can’t hide anything. So if your partner is avoiding eye-contact, then it’s a warning sign that they are up to something. A honest person will always look into the eye and talk.
(2) Take a note of their breathing pattern:
Breathing rate which is not normal is an example of stress or anxiety. If the other person is not telling you the truth, they will be extremely cautious to hide them which makes them stressed and lessens the breathing rate. They will put extra pressure on thinking so that they can fabricate their lies which brings more blood on their faces and slows down their breathing pattern. So if you notice such abnormalities, your partner is definitely lying.
(3) Focus on the details:
If your significant other is giving a lot of details about something which are not needed, then it’s a sign that they are hiding something from you. Hence, they are talking about things which are absolutely irrelevant. With these extra unnecessary detailing, they might make you feel that they are actually being loyal to you which they are not.
(4) Read their facial reactions:
Reading facial reactions is one of the best ways to understand whether a person is lying or not. When a person is saying something with honesty, their confidence will get reflected in their facial expressions. But anything which might be a lie will make the person feel very insecure of what they are saying. It’s a natural tendency of liars to have their lips sealed tightly so that no information which they don’t want to reveal gets out of their mouth under unfortunate circumstances. The continuous movement of eyebrows also signify a person’s dishonesty.
(5) Have faith on your instinct:
You might have felt something which pushes you into believing that something is not right even though you don’t have a definite proof for it. It’s good to listen to our subconscious and have faith on our instincts because they are right most of the times.
If you notice some strange and negative reactions, take steps before you get hurt.
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