Happiness does not have too many edicts that need to be followed. There is an equal part of pragmatism and fascinating that helps happy women make simple successful choices.
These are not difficult to put to practice and the bulk of the contentment lies in the attitude towards life and us. The dialogue has to begin within ourselves as women and then consciously working towards the outer ring of life. Training our behaviors and living healthily is part of a happy mental habit.
Here are a few habits that a happy woman has:
1. Ask for help and know it when:
The biggest difference in a woman’s life is to know when to call for help. You should be able to make that decision and decide for yourself when the time is ready to seek assistance like when raising a child. Instead of false alarms, a happy woman seeks out when all doors are shut and she needs real help. You should be able to have firm shoulders and seek help only when the time is ripe.
2. Try and live in the moment of life:
The idea is to manage one’s life well and happily. You should stop worrying about the future and start taking concrete steps to fulfil your life. You should stop living dreams and profoundly commit yourself to living in the moment.
3. See the good in others:
One of the most striking features of happy women is that they often see the good in others and almost never judge anything and everything that comes their way. Focusing on the good is almost always successful. You should be able to take the bad with a pinch of the good!
4. Stop having a penchant for the dramatic and dangerous:
Most women are notorious when it comes to throwing tantrums and have a reputation at that to beat. Happy women almost never delve on regrets and take hard decisions to solve problems. They do not resort to the dramatic and emotional.
5. Choose a partner and always certainly prepare yourself for any eventuality to be alone too:
Happy women almost certainly enjoy the company of their men but also make provisions of staying alone if the need arises. They are happy in their own company and are resolute and successful in their own right. Adjustment is the name of the game. But most happy women have soul fulfilling habits that keep them company even if they are left alone to fend for themselves.
6. Learn to enjoy your own company:
As women, most of us spend our lives dedicated to our husbands, work or even family. It is necessary that you spend some quality time with yourself and learn to enjoy your own company. The “me time” is very important and requires you to have a good mental and physical health system.
7. Learn to understand and forgive:
Women who are happy are a lot calmer and do not react adversely to situations. They learn to forgive and not nurse grudges against people and things. Happy women have confidence to face challenges. They shine when confronted with these rather than succumbing to them.