In this type of love, we just meet this person and everything falls in place. Even without our knowing everything just fits. This happens because one does not think or rather remember that they must behave in a particular manner or any pressure to be other than what they naturally are.
We are accepted for what we are. There is no coloring, no makeup – just our plane authentic self. This realization reverberates deep within our souls.
Never had we imagined that love would come to our lives in this way. It does not follow any of the rules we thought would help us to be careful and calculated. This love removes any fixed notions we had in our mind about how it should be.
When love happens like this, we may not be able to believe that it has actually happened. But, it continuously tells us that it has arrived, no matter how much time we take to respond.
It seems the most right thing that has ever happened to us.
Perhaps, not everyone gets to experience this type of love, or maybe we can’t because we aren’t ready to experience it. The truth is we have to understand what does not mean love before we can know what it is.
It can take a whole life to learn the lessons of life, or if, one is lucky they grasp all of them just in a few years.
It could be that it does not matter if we are prepared for love, but if love is ready for us.
So many times we have seen people around us who fell in love once and are in as much love today as they were 50 years ago when they entered matrimony. Their passionate love doesn’t lose its sheen until their lives end. They make us wonder if we have any clue how to love at all.
Most people believe they are lucky, and indeed, they are.
But people who survive all the failed relationships and ultimately make it to the third love are the luckiest.
They are the ones who are tired of trying and their broken hearts make them wonder if there is something truly wrong with their way of loving.
There’s nothing wrong with their way of loving. It’s just that they haven’t found someone who could love them in the same way they did.
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So, it boils down to this. Either we don’t have the ability to love other than the way we do or we know no limits when it comes to loving someone.
Anyone can stay in first love if they are happy with it because it looks so perfect and everyone approves it. They can stick around with the second one if we are able to live with the belief that it isn’t loved unless we don’t have to struggle to keep it. Or we can believe there exists a third love.
The love that makes you feel as if you have come home but you can’t prove it with a piece of rationale. It doesn’t feel as if you are facing a storm, rather it feels like the calm that surrounds after the storm has passed.
First love is special as they say and the love that leaves a scar on our hearts is still unique, but the third love is truly amazing.
Because we never saw it coming, yet it lasts. It reveals why the previous ones didn’t last. That is why you should not cease to try, cause you don’t know when you will find your final love.
“You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.” ~ Unknown
Here’s an interesting video on how we fall in love with 3 people in our lifetime – each one for a specific reason: