There are a few things that every man should do for his wife, in order to make sure that they have a happy and strong marriage.
“THE SECRET OF A HAPPY MARRIAGE IS FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON. YOU KNOW THEY’RE RIGHT IF YOU LOVE TO BE WITH THEM ALL THE TIME.”- JULIA CHILD
Every husband should do sweet things for his wife. It’s not just when they are dating or are on a honeymoon. It is actually even more important to do simple things for your wife when you are married. The marriage can sometimes get vulnerable and unstable when couples stop putting an effort to keep the romance alive. So, it really helps a lot to put that extra effort into your partner, and your relationship.
Here are 12 important things that every man should do for his wife.
12 Meaningful Things Every Man Should Do For His Wife
1. Always make her feel loved.
Make her feel loved by telling her how much you love her. Be sweet and loving when talking to her. Every day, do simple things that will make her feel happy and special. For example, try different ways to say good morning to her. Serve her breakfast in bed. Send her a love message on a random day with no particular reason, just because you miss her and for how amazing she is.
2. Compliment her.
Make sure that you say sweet and romantic things to your wife. Did she get a new haircut? Let her know how amazing she looks, even if you don’t really like her haircut. Did she buy a new outfit? Tell her she looks amazing. Compliment her in every small thing she does. This will let her know that you notice the small things and changes in her appearance because you pay close attention. When she does something and she isn’t proud of the outcome, praise her for trying and for doing her best. It will boost her confidence.
“A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE REQUIRES FALLING IN LOVE MANY TIMES, ALWAYS WITH THE SAME PERSON.”- MIGNON MCLAUGHLIN
Chores are not solely for the wife to do. She isn’t a housemaid or a housekeeper so she shouldn’t be the only one doing them. Help her clean, do the dishes, wash the laundry, walk the dog, etc. Help her with the house tasks. Whenever you can, cook for her. Tidy up the room; don’t leave all tasks to her. Make her feel that both of you have a fair share of housework, regardless of who is working for the family.
3. Take her out on a date.
Being married does not mean you should stop going on dates. As a married couple, you should continue to go on dates and spend some alone time together. Your time may not be as flexible as before because of your job and other responsibilities but try to at least schedule a date to take her out every once a week or more. This will make her feel special just like it did at the beginning of your relationship. You can even go back to the places you both used to go and reminisce about your moments together in those places. This will help strengthen your bond and marriage.
4. Let her know she is beautiful.
Say it to her while looking into her eyes. Say it sincerely and lovingly, as if you have never seen anyone else as beautiful as her. Especially in old age, letting her know she has remained beautiful throughout the years will make her feel confident and beautiful inside and out.
5. Take care of her.
When she is sick, look after her and even cook for her. Always stay by her side when she needs it. Spend quality time with her and always make the effort every day to show that you love and care for her. When she has problems at work, talk to her and try to ease her stress and worries. Be there with open arms, give her a hug, and kiss her. There are certain things that never get old despite the years. Your love is one of them.