We’ve all got something preventing us from finding that special someone.
Love is a tricky thing. A lot of times we take it personally, but to be honest, it’s ALWAYS been that way. You can ask your parents, your grandparents, generations coming up — they’ll all say the same thing:
Love is a LOT of freakin’ work.
It’s messy as hell — that you can always count on. It’s complicated, it’s difficult, it’s pulling-out-your-hair frustrating … but it’s SO worth it. For every relationship struggle you have, there are a million incredible moments that make you truly appreciate being in love.
Don’t give up on it just because it sucks sometimes. Trust me, you’ll be glad you didn’t.
Remember, we all have our flaws. I mean come on, nobody is ever going to be perfect. So, we have to consider our own set-backs when searching for love. We’re all different, each one of us having a particular flaw that keeps us from going all in with somebody we think we may love. Knowing the biggest thing that holds you back from diving into that love will help you immensely.
Luckily, we can help you figure out just what that #1 thing is that’s preventing you from falling for your true love. Just try taking a look at your zodiac sign to see what could be holding YOU back. The stars and astrology can tell us a lot more about ourselves than you might think.
So find your horoscope by birthday below and get back on track to finding the love you deserve.
Aries (March 21-April 19)
You can be WAY too short-tempered.
Okay Aries, take a chill pill. Count to ten, do some breathing exercises, whatever it takes. If you spend all your time getting angry, how will you ever truly be happy? Next time you feel like getting upset, take a step back and look at all the great things in your life — including love.
Taurus (April 20-May 20)
You’re too dang stubborn.
Quit being so stuck in your ways. Branch out, take a step out of your comfort zone. I know it can be easy to get caught up in your pride, but that doesn’t mean you have to be so stubborn about everything all the time. Don’t be afraid to admit when you’re wrong and when your partner is right, it’ll go a long way.
Gemini (May 21-June 20)
Your knack for indecisiveness.
I don’t care what the decision is you’re making, but for the love of God just make it! You are notorious for being the worst decision-maker ever and you need to cut that out if you ever plan on finding love. How can you ever choose a lover if you can’t make a decision to save your life?
Cancer (June 21-July 22)
Your insecurity and constant suspicions.
If you ever want to make a relationship work, you need to be more trusting. You can’t be going around making accusations just because you have certain insecurities. You have to trust that the one you love, loves you, too.