One heartbreak is like a thousand lessons. Loving again is learning them.
All troubled relationships leave a certain amount of bitterness in our mouth. Most of such relationships are so painful that it clouds our vision for the future. We are unable to look ahead to the future. It is common for us to feel disoriented and it almost feels like a bad dream. Experts and psychologists suggest that as time passes, with a little will power, you can see the glimmer of hope. Here are the top signs that indicate you are on a road to recovery, signs that you are over your ex and ready for a new relationship
1 – You sense a feeling of attraction: Most of us hardly get compliments or are encouraged on our good looks when we are with a troubled partner. We are hardly noticed for our good looks and that can take a toll on our self confidence. But with time, you notice how people react to you. You start feeling special again. You spend more time in front of the mirror, feeling attractive. They say it right, you do fall in love with yourself first to fall in love with some one else.
2 – You notice others and find attraction: With time you start feeling joyous and notice a lot of people of the opposite sex. As your heart opens, you will see how others are endearing and appeal to you. You start becoming less critical and observe people with a more open mind. he world and it’s people start looking better again.
3 – You start getting better treatment: Bad relationships are mostly about bad behavior. You get so used to being mistreated that you may not see good intentions to any action fro anyone. But with time, you start acknowledging the good in others, you feel appreciated. It is then, when you taste respect and self worth again. You feel gratitude and the will to give back positivity as you receive.
4 – You start feeling inspired by your personal likes: A bad relationship is often drama filled and you feel some of your old hobbies are not appreciated. With time though, you start respecting your hobbies once more and seek out for more pursuits in the long run. The more you start engaging with your hobbies, the better you feel.
5 – You get back on the groove with friends: People often isolate themselves in bad relationships. With time, however, those changes and our past situations give a way to new ones. If you are feeling the urge to make new friends and mend fences, means that you are trying to get back at life anew.
6 – Your health starts improving: One of the first signs of moving in the right direction is about a decrease in stress levels. You might also lose weight and get active. All this indicates a spurt in happiness.
7 – You are giving a shot at romance again: When you were in a bad relationship, you probably were not giving much of a shot to romance. Romantic escapades and positivity seemed a far cry. With time, you may come out of that phase and seek intimacy again. You are happy again and fantasize about closeness.
8 – You start feeling hopeful: Hope does not spring when you are in bad company. It all looks lonely, scary and gloomy. But if you are feeling that your choices are making you happy and solitude makes you empowered, you are on the road to start afresh.
And suddenly you know… it’s time to start something new and trust the magic of beginnings