Does He Have A Secret Crush On You? 45 Subtle Signs To Know

Secret Crush Subtle Signs Know

The last post was all about witty and cheesy pick up lines for crush to make her smile. This post focuses on how to know if he has a secret crush on you. If you racking your brain to find out if he has crush on you or not, then here are subtle signs that he just cannot hide.

In case you had any doubts.

Dating would be a whole lot more straightforward for everyone if people just said how they really feel off the bat. Unfortunately, that’s way too terrifying and requires more confidence than any of us can muster up.

Instead, we’re left to translate subtle signals in the hopes of establishing a romantic connection with a guy giving us very little to work with. 

If you’re newly dating someone or have been crushing on someone you’ve known for ages, you want to be sure you’re reading him properly so you don’t risk getting rejected when you put yourself out there. But since some men play their cards extremely close to their chest, you have to become a super spy to notice their subtle behaviors and things that give away their true feelings.

Are you ready to find whether your guy has crush on you?

Here’re 45 signs to know if a guy likes you.

These are things you need to look out for to gauge if your feelings are destined to flourish, or if your relationship will fail to launch. 

1. He looks attentive when you speak.

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Does He Have A Secret Crush On You? 45 Subtle Signs To Know

If he’s hanging on to every word you say, you know that he cares to hear your voice.

Watch to see if he nods along, raises his eyebrows in interest, or just looks engaged. If he prefers to interrupt or is unfocused, his affections are clearly elsewhere. 

Related: 40 Witty & Cheesy Pick-Up Lines That Will Make Your Crush Smile

2. He trips over his words around you. 

If you know he’s normally well-spoken or confident, but all of a sudden he’s stuttering and nervous, he’s probably trying to impress you. He feels pressure to speak well because he wants you to care what he has to say. Now that’s a clear sign your guy has a crush on you.

3. He’s leaning towards you. 

He wants to close the distance between you guys so as to be both physically and emotionally more connected. Often, men will lean in with one hand on their hip to look more powerful, almost as a kind of mating dance! 

4. His pupils are huge.

Pupil dilation is a natural brain response to things we like. It can even occur when we see our favorite meals.

So, while you definitely don’t want him to view you as a piece of meat, if his eyes are wide around you, it means he’s attracted to you and has crush on you. 

5. His toes are pointed towards you. 

The feet lead and the heart follows.

A good way to test this is to lean towards him or reach in his direction. If you notice that he shifts his toes away from you when you touch him, it could be a sign he’s rejecting your advances.

6. He smiles a lot around you.

You make him feel good enough to grin. This is good news, and it means he’ll associate you with positive feelings, more likely to want your company.

If he’s flashing his teeth, this is even better because he can’t even compose his smile. 

Related: 17 Uncomfortable Signs You’ve Finally Met A Good Guy

7. He makes eye contact.

Eyes are the window to the soul.

If you catch him staring into yours, you know he’s probably searching for that deeper connection. A single look can be intimate so make sure to make eye contact back. 

8. He looks at your mouth when you talk. 

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Does He Have A Secret Crush On You? 45 Subtle Signs To Know

Even if eye contact is lacking, this is a close second best. If he’s looking at your lips and mouth, it’s possible he wants to kiss you and is distracted by this intimate part of your face. It’s a subtle sign that he has a crush on you.

9. He compliments you often. 

When he throws frequent compliments your way, he’s trying to say more than just that he likes your outfit. Even if they’re just casual statements about your sense of humor or your intelligence, these are all ways of saying he likes you.

Hold on to guys who compliment more than just your looks — they’re the ones who’ll stick around. 

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