Are you wondering if he’s just not that into you? Or are you looking for signs to move on? One of the most disheartening and downright painful experiences in life is realizing the man you’re dating doesn’t feel about you the way you feel about him.
Imagine you just bought your favorite ice cream.
You take off the wrapper, start to enjoy the chocolate outer layer, and just as you’re about to bite into the ice cream— the best part— someone walks past you, accidentally knocks it out of your hand and it falls to the ground.
Dating can sometimes feel just like that. Sometimes you feel so close to finally tasting the magic and then you’re so far away again. But it doesn’t have to be.
I’m Nadine Piat, the creator of Healthy You Healthy Love and the world-leading online program Unlock His Heart. Today, I’ll share the very important five signs he’s just not that into you and what to do about it.
The truth is most women know these signs he’s just not that into you. They know when they’re not being adored and treated in a way that makes them feel safe and secure. They know when a man is hot and cold and doesn’t seem all that invested.
Are You Guilty Of Ignoring The Signs That Your Boyfriend Is Just Not That Into You?
Or maybe he’s not your boyfriend yet but you’re hoping he will be.
Humans have a habit of getting attached to people. Women in particular are really good at going to say the best in people. And when it comes to men, many women are experts at making excuses for unkind behavior. They will make up reasons why he’s acting how he is so they don’t have to face the hard truth that perhaps he’s just not that into you.
Yes, you can make all the efforts you want.
He may feed you with enough affection and attention to keep you hooked and you may be able to influence him into staying in a relationship longer than he wants to but as harsh as it sounds when he’s not making an effort consistently, he’s not doing so for a reason.
Let’s look at the five signs a man is just not that into you so you can put an end to a relationship that’s already doomed and just move on.
Rebuild your confidence, heal your heart and attract the man that will actually add to your life not suck the life out of you.
First of all, let me ask you.
How Do You Know That A Guy Likes You?
Men are pretty straightforward in general. So the obvious answer is you can see when a man likes you by his actions. He shows it clearly by wanting to spend time with you, calling or texting regularly, being nice to you, making future plans with you. It’s hard to miss the signs he likes you.
Well, the opposite is also true if you’re paying attention. When a guy is just not that into you, he’ll do none of these things I just listed and that’s your cue to say goodbye and move on.
You can’t force a relationship on someone who doesn’t want it. But do know that some men may really like you. Therefore, for whatever reason he’s not moving towards you, he’s balking.
It may be because the timing is off.
Maybe he’s insecure or super shy.
Perhaps he’s not yet achieved what he wants to achieve in his life and doesn’t feel enough for you.
But why does it really matter all that much? It’s the same principle. He’s not invested enough right now to give you what you want and deserve.