13 Signs Your Guy Is A Keeper

signs your guy is a keeper

His words tell you a lot about who he is. Hold on tight cause this one’s your forever man! Words are something that does not let you down and his words are the signifier of how he sees you. Watch out for these 13 things that you man says, for that will make the signs your guy is a keeper, a real one.

You’ve dated for months or maybe longer. Your new man seems like a perfect match for you. But how can you know for sure? You don’t want to waste your time with the wrong guy, and lately, your radar has been off.

Perhaps he’s the quiet type. It appears that he cares for you based on his actions. Still, what he says matters and every word is like a breadcrumb leading to the big prize: you!

Related: Keepers: 15 Identifying Traits of Successful Long-Term Relationship Partners

Signs Your Guy Is A Keeper

Listen up! Here is how to know if he’s the one. If he says these 13 things, your man is a total keeper:

1. “You Are Beautiful —  Inside And Out.”

My boyfriend said this to me early on in our relationship and my heart melted. Let the other guys go solely for looks; your guy appreciates everything about you.

2. “I Love Your Smile.”

13 Signs Your Guy Is A Keeper
Signs Your Guy Is A Keeper

This is the man who will want to spend his entire life trying to make you smile over and over again.

3. “Here’s My Take.”

And, he doesn’t expect you to fall in line. He knows you have your own fantastic mind and you are the one best equipped to know what’s right for you.

4. “What Do You Think?”

Your beau asks your opinion because it matters to him. You matter to him. This inquiry shows that he respects you. If he asks this question for the little things that come up, he will ask it for the bigger ones that will arise later on, too. He considers you his partner.

5. “I Support You.”

He is not you, and he is not going to always agree with your course of action. At the same time, if he can stand by you and your decisions, you’ve got one awesome guy.

6. “I’m Sorry.”

It takes a genuinely humble man to admit his mistakes. If it’s clear that he’s learned from the experience, snatch him up for good!

You want someone who isn’t going to cover up his flaws; someone comfortable in his skin, willing to grow, and become a better person.

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Lisa Petsinis

Lisa Petsinis is a certified coach who works with women who want to bring their best selves to their work, relationships, and life. She's on a mission to beat overwhelm and create more confidence, hope, joy, and success.  The key is self-awareness, and she uses a strength-based approach, visioning, mindfulness, and tools like and MBTI® to help clients uncover their brilliance. People say that it's the thoughtfulness, insight, empathy, and care that she brings to each situation that makes the difference. Visit her website to read more of her articles, sign up for her newsletter, or contact Lisa to learn if coaching is right for you. Transform your life, starting today.View Author posts