Case Study 7:
“My wife decided three years ago sex is too ‘icky.’
No discussion no easing into it. Nope, not anymore!’
Our marriage isn’t going well.”
Case Study 8:
He likes to finger keyboards more than my vagina.
Case Study 9:
“Simply put, we hate each other and cheat regularly, but we also have a dynamic that nobody can ever replace and love each other for that.”
Case Study 10:
“My wife has so many excuses for us not having sex that I can’t name them all.
Every suggestion I offer to help her get into the mood—shot down.
About to hit the three-year mark for no $ex, and next week is our 10th anniversary.”
Case Study 11:
“Honestly we’re both just not attractive anymore. Better to masturbate”.
Case Study 12:
I’m not in love anymore and I want out.
Case Study 13:
“We’re both on anti-depressants which have totally messed with our $ex drives.”
Case Study 14:
“We’re both on anti-depressants which have totally messed with our $ex drives. We’ve been together 11 years and we were both on them before we met.
She has never really had much of a sex drive and I did a little bit but I’ve gotten on more pills in the last few months which has driven it down a little.
She can have orgasms, which I’m thankful for, so when we do have longer sex sessions, it means more and I don’t feel inadequate about being the only one getting anything.
When I was in school last year we went on a big stretch from September until December without doing it and even after then, we’ve probably done it 3-5 times.”
Case Study 15:
“My ex used to use $ex as a way to get what she wanted”. Used to use it as a tool to manipulate (She’s a certified narcissist) after about a year together I caught on.
I completely stopped initiating $ex I would go rub one out. She could come to me whenever she wanted but I would never initiate.
This went on for 4 years before I figured out you can’t have a relationship with a narcissist. It’s all given, no give and take.”
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