The 4 Different Soulmate Relationships That Guide Your Life

Most of us define a Soul Mate as a perfect romantic partner that will fulfill every aspect of our being.  Soul Mates are in sync with us, they are supportive, sexy, intelligent, funny and will be part of our “happily ever after” story.

The truth is, life is not quite that simple.

What Exactly Is a Soul Mate?

A Soul Mate is a member of your soul family.  These are other souls that come into our lives for one reason or another, and they can be family, friends, colleagues, neighbors, lovers and even enemies.

We all have a soul and when we encounter other souls in our lives, the friction of the meeting between two energy forces can create different, intriguing and challenging effects.  Some souls will feel as though they have known each other from another lifetimes, some will clash, and some will feel at ease with the other person’s company.

Essentially some of the souls that come into our lives will help us grow in love and wisdom, while others will aid us in learning difficult life lessons or universal truths.

No matter how fleeting the encounter, each soul that comes into our lives has the potential to provide a significant life transforming moment; even that one girl that smiled at you from the window of a bus passing by.

Soul Mates serve as mirrors of ourselves.  What we see in another soul reflects our own soul.

When we are capable of seeing others souls as ‘mates’, (including our enemies), as members of our family that are there to teach us life lessons, then our whole perception and relation to other people changes entirely.

 

Different Types Of Soul Mates

In our language we have the word ‘friend’, and the word ‘soul mate’ which is essentially romantic by nature.  But how would you describe someone that falls in between?  Someone who is more than just a ‘best friend’ but doesn’t have the romantic and sexual attraction of a ‘soul mate’?

We need to create new words to express these relationships we have with others. 

Here are a few words that help to distinguish these deep connections we have in life:

Soul Friend

This is your most common type of relationship connection.  These are the people in your life who you have chosen because your ego, intelligence or emotions are harmonious with the others.  Essentially, you share the same tastes, interests, beliefs, sense of humor and values.

While this connection is not as deep as a Soul Companion, a Soul Friend’s company creates little friction.  Sometimes Soul Friends can become Soul Teachers, but generally you are the one who chooses your Soul Friend as you perceive the world in a similar way to them.

 

Soul Teacher

Soul Teachers are composed of all the people in your life that have come to teach you a lesson.  They don’t necessary teach you intentionally, but often provide challenging situations in your life for you to overcome and learn from.

Soul Teachers often come in the form of family members, friends, acquaintances, old lovers, momentary drifters and even enemies.  You attract them into your life because you need to learn something from them.  For example, some teach you to cultivate patience for the guy who doesn’t signal before changing lanes, to stop lusting over the ‘bad boys’ that keep crossing your path, or to develop greater compassion and understanding for another person’s way of life and beliefs.

Usually any friction in relationships is due to a failure in acknowledging something within ourselves, or in other words; a resistance to the lessons our Soul Teachers teach us.  We can never change other people unless they are open to do so, but we can change ourselves.

 

Soul Companion

This would come closest to what we commonly define as a “soul mate” with the exception of romantic attraction.  Soul Companions can be males or females, friends or family members.  While Soul Friends are harmonized with us through their ego identities, Soul Companions experience soulful harmony with us.  The nature of a Soul Companion is much more long-lived and stable to that of a Soul Friend for this reason.

Many times the relationships you develop with these people will feel as though you’ve known them for centuries, even from past lives.  With a Soul Companion there is a great and deep understanding of the other person, and a feeling that you are both on the same ‘wavelength’ of thoughts and emotions.  These connections often last for a lifetime.

Mateo Solhttps://lonerwolf.com
Mateo Sol is a prominent psychospiritual teacher whose work has influenced the lives of thousands of people worldwide. Born into a family with a history of drug addiction, schizophrenia, and mental illness, Mateo Sol was taught about the plight of the human condition from a young age. As a spiritual guide and teacher, Sol’s mission is to help others experience freedom, wholeness, and peace in any stage of life. See more of his work at Lonerwolf.com

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