Everyone wants a happy love life, but not everybody gets one. Incredible women sometimes end up having the worst love lives, because of who they are, but that does not always have to be a bad thing. Love is not meant to be forced, and should always happen organically, and the same goes for relationships.
‘A woman is like a tea bag—you never know how strong she is until she gets in hot water ’— Eleanor Roosevelt.
Finding love is a matter of luck but it also depends on what kind of person you are. While some women enjoy very healthy relationships, others find it extremely difficult to get their Mr. Right. Such women usually end up loving the wrong men and eventually, their relationships do not last.
Generally, strong, independent women are the ones who tend to fail in their love affairs. But what can be the reason? They are smart, they are beautiful, they are independent. While this might sound awkward, let me tell you that this is exactly the case.
Here Are 8 Reasons Why Incredible Women Have The Worst Love Lives
(1) She is independent and her dream is her first priority.
When a woman is strong and independent, she is bound to put her dreams and ambitions first before anything else. She will never compromise in her goals just to make someone happy because she has worked very hard to get to where she is today.
She needs space to fulfill her dreams. If her partner fails to understand her and becomes a hurdle instead of support, she would choose her dreams instead of him. She will not hesitate in breaking things off if she feels that her partner does not respect her goals and just wants her to do what he thinks is right.
(2) Love is not her first priority.
She has been successful at a very young age. While women of her age were busy finding and dating men, she gave all her focus on her career. Love and a romantic relationship for her is not the sole thing that exists, a relationship is a bonus for her, something that will add to her life, not be her whole life.
For her, if love comes, then it’s good but if love doesn’t come, it’s okay too. She is independent and strong enough to live life on her own terms and in her own way, and she does not need anybody else to be there for her. She will be completely fine by herself.
(3) She is choosy when it comes to men.
She’s wonderful. She’s adorable. Life has been a struggle for her and she knows how to achieve her dreams. And that is why, not all men interest her. She gets repelled by idiots, and she needs someone who can understand the importance of diligence, who can understand her passion, and her dreams.
She will never settle for someone just because she needs to be in a relationship like others. She will only be in a relationship with someone who is on the same level as her. Compromising on her standards just for the sake of being in a relationship is not something she believes in.
(4) She will not tolerate bullshit from any man.
She knows her worth, and that’s why she doesn’t depend on anyone else. She knows what she deserves, and what she doesn’t, so it’s no wonder that she never accepts any kind of nonsense from men. Every time someone might try to put her down or insult her, she will swiftly show them their place; it’s not easy messing with her.
Incredible women have the worst love lives because she would rather be alone then be with someone who doesn’t respect her and her ideals. She will always choose to be with someone who shows her the same respect she does.