All work and no play won’t take you anywhere. You will be sending wrong signals that you can’t spare time for anything else or you are not interested in a relationship. That will definitely drive people away from you.
Men can understand when your career stops you from commitment. They would not want to get involved with someone who is fully invested in her career.
Balance your life, and find time to meet new people. Socializing will affect you positively and relax your mind. You will be more at ease having fun. You will appear as a lively and fun loving individual rather than uptight which workaholics usually are.
Understand the difference between your career being your sole object of concentration and focusing on your career.
If career is the only focus in your life, you can hardly expect men come near you. They would only want to woo you when they know you are ready to take note on anything else. Work hard and achieve your career targets, but also live your life. Do the things you like. You can get involved in charity, join a club of your interest or hang around with your BFFs.
The women who are focused on their career and wanted to have a family by a particular age but couldn’t, don’t need to be depressed. They are more likely to find the men of their choice, and they will.
Stay the course.
A woman who lives to follow her dreams is the most attractive woman.