Do Your Friends Treat You Like An Emotional Dump Ground? If Yes, This Is For You

 December 04, 2018

Do Your Friends Treat You Like An Emotional Dump Ground If Yes, This Is For You

A friend is not there to bail you out, a friend is only there to listen. But when I listen to my friends, and I listen to people, I listen to them with empathy. But also there’s a phrase that goes through my head;

Not my problem.

It doesn’t mean I don’t feel for them, but I am not going to enable their behavior that got them to the level that they’re at.

And that’s what we do. When we give money to somebody who continues to borrow and never pays back, we’re just enabling them. When we help somebody out with another job interview but they never seem to show up, or they always seem to screw it up, we’re just enabling their bad behavior. So you need to take the realm of it’s not my problem.

Empathy and compassion is great. You can’t bail people out of their life mess.

Take that and learn from it.

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Written by David Wygant
Originally appeared on DavidWygnant.com

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Do Your Friends Treat You Like An Emotional Dump Ground If Yes, This Is For You

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