They know that a successful marriage requires two mature and independent individuals who come together to support each other’s growth instead of being codependent and stifling each other’s growth. They have a more mature and practical approach to love and marriage instead of having a childish candy-floss idea of romance.
5. They Have The Courage To Walk Away From Something That Isn’t Wholesome And Fulfilling.
It takes guts to walk away from something that isn’t fulfilling and wholesome. They display the kind of standards and principles they have.
They have the balls to stand up and say that this isn’t what I want and moved on and faced the world alone. That takes a lot of incredible power, girl!
6. They’ve Humbled By Recognizing And Learning From Their Experience.
Every experience in life teaches us valuable lessons about who we are and what we want from life. This kind of self-awareness is extremely important as it bestows a person with humble and yet very confident self-esteem.
In fact, most of our failed relationships are great platforms that have provided us with this extremely useful knowledge of what our needs and non-negotiable are in our relationships.
And this knowledge can help us to choose our future partners wisely.
7. They Have A Deep Knowledge Of What Satisfies Them Both Emotionally And Sexually.
Break ups always leave a person in an introspective mode where they try to find out what went wrong and what they learn from their experience is.
The result of this activity is that it opens up a doorway for profound insights into their own likes and dislikes, preferences, desires, and non-negotiable. Going through a divorce (as painful as it might feel), also means that the entire process has helped them immensely to be more self-aware.
So, now they have a deep knowledge of what satisfies them emotionally and sexually and that’s a very rare trait for both men and women because a lot of people don’t take out the time for this kind of introspection and self-awareness.
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8. They Know What Losing Love Feels Like.
They have experienced what losing love feels like and they would also make every effort to keep it from happening again. They would be more willing and open to having tough conversations that are part and parcel of every relationship.
In fact, most of the relationships fall apart because people avoid these tough conversations. But they wouldn’t run away from this and actually encourage their partner to have those tough conversations that can strengthen the relationship.
9. They Live Their Life To The Fullest.
They made the choice to invest in themselves rather than investing in a lifeless relationship shows the kind of love and respect they have for themselves. They practice self-love, hustle every day and take the opportunity to become a better version of themselves and live their life to the fullest.
What can be more kickass than that?
10. Their Scars Are A Sign Of Wisdom And Make them All The More Attractive.
They have experienced a very wide range of human emotions from pain and loss to love and euphoria, which gives them a certain depth and ability to appreciate all that life has to offer.
A few kinks in their armor or few scars are only a sign of their warrior strength and have made them more attractive and inspiring for people.
So, don’t be worried about the future. There are a lot of people out there who find all these traits way more attractive than superficial stuff. When they will find someone incredible walking their path, they will know.
And even if they don’t find someone, they would still be badass women!
One separation or divorce cannot stop the fierce spirit that they are.