You had the balls to stand up and say that this isn’t what I want and moved on and faced the world alone. That takes a lot of incredible power, girl!
6) You’ve humbled by recognizing and learning from your experience
Every experience in life teaches us valuable lessons about who we are and what we want from life. This kind of self awareness is extremely important as it bestows a person with a humble and yet a very confident self esteem.
Infact most of our failed relationships are great platforms that have provided us with this extremely useful knowledge of what our needs and non negotiable are in our relationships.
And this knowledge can help us to choose our future partners wisely.
7) You have a deep knowledge of what satisfies you emotionally and sexually
Break ups always leave you in an introspective mode where you try to find out what went wrong and what the learning from your experience is.
The result of this activity is that it opens up a doorway for profound insights into your own likes and dislikes, preferences, desires and non negotiable.
Going through a divorce (as painful as it might feel), also means that the entire process has helped you immensely to be more self aware.
So, now you have a deep knowledge of what satisfies you emotionally and sexually and that’s a very rare trait for both men and women, because a lot of people don’t take out the time for this kind of introspection and self awareness.
8) You know what losing love feels like
You have experienced what losing love feels like and you would also make every effort to keep it from happening again.
You would be more willing and open to have tough conversations that are part and parcel of every relationship.
Infact most of the relationships fall apart because people avoid these tough conversations. But you wouldn’t run away from this and actually encourage your partner to have those tough conversations that can strengthen the relationship.
9) You live your life to the fullest
Your choosing to invest in yourself than investing in a lifeless relationship shows the kind of love and respect you have for yourself. You always deserved the self-love you were sacred to provide yourself.
You hustle everyday to become a better version of yourself and take every opportunity to live your life to the fullest.
What can be more kickass that that? You go girl!
10) Your scars area sign of your wisdom and make you all the more attractive
You have experienced a very wide range of human emotions from pain and loss to love and euphoria, which gives you a certain depth and ability to appreciate all that life has to offer.
A few kinks in your armor or few scars are only a sign of your warrior strength and have made you more attractive and inspiring for people.
So, if you’re worried about your future, don’t be. There are a lot of people out there who find all these traits way more attractive than superficial stuff and you would find someone incredible walking your path pretty soon.
And even if you don’t you would still be kickass girl!
One separation cannot stop the fierce spirit that you are.
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