Are you dating a strong girl who is used to being alone?
Here’re 15 things to know before dating here:
1. She’s strong
You might even be intimidated by her a bit.
2. Because she’s been weak in the past
If there’s one thing her past has taught her, it’s she’ll never again let someone treat her badly or knock her without getting up and fighting.
3. She doesn’t need you
If you’re dating a strong girl, she might come across like she doesn’t need anyone and she might push you away, the truth is the only person she’s learned she can rely on is herself.
4. But she wants you
Consider it a compliment if a strong girl likes you, she’s selective in who she chooses because she knows what she deserves and doesn’t settle.
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5. She wants to trust you
Strong girls are ones who were built from the bad things that have happened in the past. She wants to believe you have good intentions.
6. But she trusts herself more
But she’ll always be skeptical until you prove yourself. So, if you’re dating a strong girl, be careful not to do anything that can break the trust.
7. She’ll hate herself for breaking down
If there’s one thing she’s good at is hiding moments of weakness. But in time, you’ll see her fall a bit. When she’s in tears crying it will be then you have to hold her and be her strength.
8. But you’ll love her more for it
She looks at herself as weak in those moments and will apologize. But you’ll look at her as human and fall in love with her.
9. She’s driven
She’s always been someone career and goal-oriented and often puts those things before relationships.
10. And will motivate you
She’ll make you want to do more and be a better version of yourself. She’ll make you want to be the best man you can be because you’re standing next to her.
11. She believes in herself
She doesn’t take no for an answer. When it comes to achieving things, she’ll always find a way.
12. And she’ll believe in you
Even if she’s the only one in your corner, if you tell her you want to do something, she’ll help you get there. That’ll be important later when the big things come along and you want to take risks. She’ll have your back and will always be loyal.
13. She’s not looking for you to have it all together
It’s okay if you’re still figuring out your life and what you want. Chances are she’s figuring it out also.
14. She’s willing to be a part of your struggle
If there’s one thing strong girls know about are success stories first start with failing.
15. So you come out together on top
Building a successful life together and loving the person next to you is her main goal in all of this.
Are you dating a strong girl who is used to being alone or have dated such girl in the past, let me know your experience in comments below.
Written by Kirsten Corley. For more of Kirsten’s work, follow her Facebook fan page.