50 Red Hot Conversation Starters To Spice Up Your Date

Hot Conversation Starters Spice Up Your Date

After publishing the post on pick up lines for crush, Mind Journal brings to you another interesting blog on how to spice up your date. Great conversation starters can fuel up your dating experience and lead to more meaningful conversations and a deeper relationship.

The more you get to know a person on a first date, the better you will be able to understand whether you should invest time in them seriously or not.

“A stunning first impression was not the same thing as love at first sight. But surely it was an invitation to consider the matter.” – Lois McMaster Bujold

There you go! Let’s admit it, we all want to make a good impression the first time we go for a date. It takes a considerable amount of time to know a person inside out but to spark it off further, you need to go beyond the surface. If you really want to set fire to your first date, how you converse and connect to the person is equally important alongside the way you present yourself. 

One crappy conversation can destroy the chances of a potentially steaming hot chemistry. To keep things a little flirty, a little intellectual, a little humorous and light-hearted, these ice-breakers will save you from the awkward silences that too often fill a date.  

Be sporty and gear up!

Here Are 50 Dating Conversation Starters

For the general or initial phase of conversation build-up:

1. Which five words would you use to describe yourself?

2. What is that one thing which is unique about you?

3. Would you recognize yourself as more of an extrovert or an introvert?

4. What are some of your least favorite qualities about yourself?

5. What are some of your most favorite qualities about yourself?

6. Given a choice would you prefer to travel or stay at home?

7. What is your favorite pastime?

8. What is that one thing people instantly notice about you?

9. What’s something which I can’t guess about you?

10. What are some of your favorite tv series?

11. What is your favorite dish to cook?

12. What is your all-time favorite song/writer/book/movie?

13. What is that one thing which you appreciate in other people?

14. Which was the last movie/tv series you watched?

15. Do you believe in zodiac signs and astrology?

16. What is your pet peeve/s?

17. Who’s your celebrity crush?

18. Which quality in a person do you hate the most?

19. Which feature in a person’s external appearance catches your attention the most?

20. What is the first thing you notice about someone when you meet them for the first time?

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For a little personal or the middle phase of conversation build-up:

21. What is that book which has left a mark on your life?

22. Do you have any long term dreams and wishes?

23. What are the things you value in life?

24. What is that one thing for which you can sacrifice everything?

25. What do you look for in a person when you want a deeper connection?

26. What are the things that make you happy?

27. Have you ever had a really awkward date?

28. How have you changed over the last 10 years?

29. What does success mean to you?

30. What is the worst pick up line pulled on you?

Related: 48 Deep Conversation Starters To Know Someone Better

For a more personal or the final phase of conversation build-up:

31. What is your biggest deal-breaker in a relationship?

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