Do you have an older sister? If yes, then congratulations on having the most amazing gift!
It true a lot of you are thinking “I just can’t tolerate my freaking big sister”, but you can’t deny the fact that having her has its perks and advantages. After all, don’t you get enough attention and pampering from our big sister?
She is not just a role model for you but also someone who is self-assured and successful in her own way. The big sister is our best friend and biggest critic while being the fiercest protector. She can always drive you mad or bring tears to your eyes.
Here are the reasons why your older sister is one of the most important people in your life:
1) A Big sister is the most trusted friend and loyalist:
Having been there from day 1, your big sister must have witnessed all the significant moments in your life. Your first baby steps, pimples, and bad breakup can be a reminder to you of how your sister must have been there around you.
At each phase of your development, your sister was around dealing with your bad attitudes and teen tantrums. She was your chief advisor too.
2) You shared the same closet:
An elder sister always allows the younger sibling to wear her clothes and shares her stuff from the younger ones.
3) She knows how to deal with your Family:
Whatever the problem is, the big sister is the best person to save you from any problem. You can navigate the problem smoothly and have you saved from any trouble.
She is your experienced wingman. You can discuss family issues with her. She is the best person to share everything on earth, cause she understands you.
4)You can talk your heart out with Her:
There are no boundaries when it comes to interacting with your sister. You don’t have to impress her. You can straightaway cut the crap and say what it is bothering you.
You don’t have to maintain an image, you can just be your true self with her. You can invade the privacy your sister has without having to feel bad about it. You can talk about life and mysteries of life without any problem.
5) She is more tolerant of your habits (bad ones too):
You have grown up together, she knows you in and out, how you leave those dirty dishes on the table. How the toilet is always messy, she knows about your last-minute change of plan habit.
But she deals with all of those issues because she loves you and you are one important part of her life.
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6) Big sister is the go-to person for cool movies, music, and fashion trends:
Your big sister steers you away from fake hair bands and boy bands that are really boring.
If you have questionable haircuts and bad fashion days, your older sister will always be there to burst that bubble and point atrocities out.
7) No sugar-coating of the truth:
Older sister will always project the real opinion of the truth and will not avoid the truth for simple confrontation.
They will slap the truth on your face anytime. She gives you the reality check you need once in a while.
8)You feel welcome always:
Your big sister will always find time for you when you are looking to get away from everything.
She has the shoulders to cry on and will open her door when you need a helping hand.
9) She knows what you are made of:
No matter the self-doubts, your lack of faith in yourself, the big sister will reassure you and offers you the strength to follow things through.
She knows what your best strengths are and will be there to support you. She is your biggest fan!
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10) Has the best word to say:
Older sisters will always have the right words to say. Her magic power will allow you to work things out in the end. She will always be there for you.
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Your big sister will never walk out on you regardless of the problem and help hold your hand during the dark hours. Big sisters often appreciate their younger siblings and let them know how much she loves you!
11) She will always be there for you:
Older sister will never give up on you regardless of the problem and help hold your hand during the dark hours.
Older sisters often appreciate their younger siblings and let them know how much they love you!
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Really like this article and it’s quite true my older sister is one of the most important people in my life ….
Thank you Lisa for your comment. I’m glad that you found the post helpful. Hope you are safe and well.