How Souls Choose Their Parents and Families Before Birth

Souls Choose Parents Families Before Birth

How Souls Choose Their Parents and Families Before Birth

Years before my baby girl was born, I had a dream that I had a daughter. She came to me and gave me a hug, told me I was her mother, and told me her name was Evelyn. That dream imprinted on my memory and my heart. So much so that when I found out I was pregnant, I knew I was carrying a girl, and she had already told me her name: Evelyn. Meaning wished for child, which couldn’t be more true!

In order to evolve, our souls come to Earth more than once.  I know that as I’ve grown and changed and learned about soul contracts and reincarnation, my thoughts and beliefs have gravitated to this notion.

For those of you who are on the fence about reincarnation, I invite you to explore the idea that a soul is born into a (different) body for many lifetimes.

It is my belief that once a soul has made the decision to have (another) earthly incarnation, the first step is to decide on what kind of life they want. This is contingent upon what lessons they wish to learn. This involves being matched with a parent or set of parents. This process really depends on the soul’s purpose and desire for specific lessons and lifestyle.

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For example,  if two souls had been together before perhaps as a mother and daughter set, then they might wish to relive that experience again or perhaps relive it in reverse, so the daughter becomes the mother in the new lifetime. Sometimes the soul wishes to incarnate in a particular part of the world, and the choice will be less specific to the individual parent.  As diverse as people are, so are our souls and what we wish to create and experience in our lifetime(s).

Once this connection to a potential parent is made, the soul then creates a connection to that person and is present around their energy, waiting to be born at the right time. When I do intuitive readings for clients, I often see the souls of their unborn children waiting for them. I can usually tell if the child is a boy or a girl, and may also get a sense of what they are meant to experience together in this lifetime.

The book Spirit Babies: How to Communicate with the Child You’re Meant to Have is a collection of stories from an intuitive gentleman who spent decades connecting parents with their unborn children. When I do a reading, I cannot guarantee I’ll pick up information about potential unborn children, but more often than not, I do ‘see’ them if they are with you and going to be joining your family in the future.

Of course, parents also have significant influence as to which soul joins their family through conception. Our daily thoughts, desires and purposes create a beacon for souls who respond to these energies. This is particularly true of the mother. According to the Edgar Cayce readings, a woman’s daily activities and inner thoughts during the gestation period create a field much like a magnet would, attracting souls to the field of opportunity life as her child would offer.

20 thoughts on “How Souls Choose Their Parents and Families Before Birth”

  1. If a soul came to me in a dream and told me I was meant to be their father, I’d warn them that they should reconsider choosing someone like me with emotional control issues and complex PTSD from growing up abused. I’d tell them to pick someone who grew up in a well-functioning family (in other words, not mine) and who will set a good example of behavior for them (in other words, not me). With that, I would wish them well in their next life.

  2. I had experiences of both my children concerning this theory. I firmly believe that children do choose their parents. I am so glad I have found out that other people think the same. I feel like a crazy person when I tell people about my experiences.
    I had my son first. When he was around 3 years old he told me he picked me to be his Mummy. It gave me chills to hear him say that. But did not think too much about it until I had my daughter. Always thought it was a pretty awesome thing for him to say 🙂
    I miscarried in the very early stages of a 2nd pregnancy and dreamt that my baby told me I can’t come in this body but I promise you I will come back. I was crying in the dream telling them not the go, but they insisted they could not come in this body but they promised they would come back. The following year I fell pregnant with my daughter and I am convinced that when she was born she was the baby I lost.
    It could just be a mental coping mechanism that some people have suggested. Because a miscarriage is so upsetting my subconscious created the dream.
    But, I am sure that I spoke to that baby in my dream and that soul returned to me in my daughter who is now 23 years old.

  3. Hi, when my son was small, he told me he picked me as his mother before he was born. He was way up high looking down, searching for his mommy. He said he saw me and knew right away I was his mom. I cried, will never forget! He’s 24 now, but doesn’t remember telling me this. I will never forget! He changed my life and made me a better person.

    1. Do you have a theory about when the exact moment is when the soul enters the body? Would the soul enter a single cell right at the point of conception? The ‘body’ at moment of the very first heartbeat? The moment of the very first sign of brain activity? Etc. I’m interested in your take on this detail.

  4. I fully agree with your article. My son was my younger Brother. We have the same Dad, different Mums. I spent the most time with him when I was 12 yrs old and he was 14 mths old. I adored him, spent every moment, asking my step mum, can I feed him, can I get him up… Can I… On my holidays with Dad, I spent as much time with him as I could. The last thing I said to him before I had to leave, ” I wish I was your mummy”… And when he drowned a month later he came and lay around the back of my neck for a few hrs, then left to do soul work with other babies who also had drowned. He returned when I was 16 and he waited with me until I was 28, when he was conceived. He is 21 now and does not remember that when he was 2 and 3 yrs old that he would chat away about how he was James(my brother) before he got here as Roman(my son) . The first time he met my Dad he was 9mths old. He practically pushed himself out of my arms to stretch out to reach him. And of course they went on like nothing had changed… Still father and son and now grandad and grandson. There is heaps more to this but… That’s enough I just hope other people explore this topic. It is real 🙂

  5. This is a fascinating concept. Why did I chose parents I never felt close to? To be able to leave them, perhaps, which I did. The first time, I left for a year when I was 16 to be an exchange student far away. Then, at the age of 22, I left for good, across an ocean and a continent for close to 30 years. When I moved back to my country of birth, both my parents had passed away…..

  6. Hio Zanem,

    This is a very interesting article. I’d like to ask you some questions off-line. How can I contact you to do so?

  7. Do souls who pick abusive, addictive, neglectful, mentally ill human women as mothers…does that mean they want to have a terrible life?

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