#4 – Hold her hand.
Women love holding hands. There is nothing better than walking down the street holding your man’s hand as you go. That long ago moment, when a boy reached for her hand in the movie theatre, was the first moment that your woman knew how it felt to be cared for.
Holding hands seems like very little thing but for women, it can be more intimate than sex. The physical contact, without expectation of anything more, makes us feel special and loved and way more likely to want to give more.
The next time you’re walking with your woman, reach over and take her hand. If you do this you can show your woman you love her in a very simple way.
#5 – Learn her Love Language.
The premise behind his book is that there are five love languages, five ways that people express and receive love.
The languages are Quality Time, Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service and Giving of Gifts.
For each person, one of those things is the thing that makes them feel the most loved when they are done unto them. When a partner tries to love them using a different love language they don’t feel loved.
My love language is Quality Time – I feel loved when someone is truly present with me, listening to me, focusing on me. My ex-husbands’ love language was Physical Touch – he felt love when I was holding his hand, hugging him or, yep, that too.
Unfortunately, the language that we spoke best with each other was Acts of Service – we did things for each other, like changing the oil in the car or going to the grocery store. Stuff got done but neither of us felt loved.
Check out the 5 Love Language at www.5lovelanguages.com. There you will find a short quiz that you and your partner can both take and you can start loving each other in a way that will work.
Good for you for trying to figure out what you can do to show your woman you love her.
Relationships are long and hard and understanding now what you can do to keep the love strong is very important.
So, go to the 5 Love Languages website to learn what your girl’s love language is. Make an effort to listen to her without trying to fix her, to anticipate her needs, to see her and to hold her hand.
Doing the simple things will make her feel loved, will make your relationship stronger and will make you both happy.
Don’t be intimidated! You can do this!
If you have read this far you must have a woman you really love.
Let me help you, NOW, so that you can start her TODAY!