Some of the life-changing lessons from Wayne Dyer can truly help in turning people’s lives around, and also for the better.
Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, you were one of the most beautiful, most humble and most authentic people that ever walked on this Earth. And I learned so much from you. You taught me how to be humble, how to live in love and truth, and how to always honor who I truly am underneath it all. You taught me how to better than I used to be and I will always be thankful for this.
Some of the most life-changing, powerful and greatest lessons I have learned so far came from this great man, Wayne Dyer and today I would like to share 15 of these lessons with you.
Here Are 15 Life-Changing Lessons From Wayne Dyer
1. Cooperation is better than competition, anyday.
Instead of constantly engaging in competition with everyone, focus on improving yourself. Be your own person and be so busy refining yourself that you never have to compete or compare yourself with others. Try to fight the thought that everything is about winning and losing, and get rid of this sense of separation.
“If you’re always in a hurry, always trying to get ahead of the other guy, or someone else’s performance is what motivates you, then that person is in control of you.” – Wayne Dyer
2. Love means never trying to change them.
When you choose to love somebody, you love them for who they actually are; not who you want them to be. If you try to change someone or try to mold them like you, then it’s not love- it’s control. And, love doesn’t mean that you should control your partner.
Accept them for who they are; their authentic and real selves.
“Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.” – Wayne Dyer
Do you accept your partner as they are? Read Unconditional Love: It’s About Accepting Your Partner The Way They Are never trying to change them
3. Ignorance is not bliss.
Contrary to what a lot of people believe, ignorance is not bliss. Allow yourself to expand your mind a little more day by day, give up labels and you will be happier. If you never try out new things, how will you experience life in it’s fullest?
Expand your mind so that you can taste and experience everything that life has to offer. Ignorance will only keep you stuck in the same loop over and over again. Remember that change is the only constant.
“The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know anything about.” – Wayne Dyer
4. Stop seeing yourself as a victim.
Take responsibility for your own thoughts, your own feelings, and actions and by doing so you will no longer give your power away to forces outside yourself. If something negative comes your way, pause for a bit and instead of reacting focus on RESPONDING.
You will no longer be a victim but rather a person who is aware of his/her inner strength and power. And nothing can be more powerful than that.
“How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.” – Wayne Dyer
Do you suffer from a victim complex? Read The Victim Identity: 4 Ways To Recover
5. Enjoy your solitude.
As long as you are comfortable in your own skin, you will never have to rely on someone else for your happiness and contentment. If you are comfortable with being alone and by yourself, that means you are strong enough to survive on your own.
People who know how to be alone always end up with the best relationships.