9 Identifying Signs of Hypersexual Disorder (Sex Addiction)

 / 

,
Signs Hypersexual Disorder

Hypersexual disorder is much more than the high sex drive. Itโ€™s an addiction just like any other drug addiction where the victim has no control over their desires.

Even though the victim knows itโ€™s not good for their well-being as well as those of others around them, they are instigated to do it because of this disorder.

Like an alcoholic who can never stop drinking, a sex addict or a person with hypersexual disorder canโ€™t have enough of sex. For a sex addict, the act of sex gives them a temporary escapade from reality and when itโ€™s over, they succumb to loneliness, stress and anxiety. They donโ€™t feel any form of connection with their partner.

Related: The Sexiest Thing About You Based On Your Zodiac Sign

The hypersexual disorder progresses with time. It might start with harmless activities like masturbating too much or watching excessive porn but can lead to something dangerous like rape.

As responsible social beings, we need to understand the symptoms of hypersexual disorder so that if we find them in someone we know, we can get them to see a therapist before things get worse.

9 Identifying Signs of Hypersexual Disorder (sex Addiction):

(1) They are masturbating too much:

We all need to masturbate but too much of masturbation is an unhealthy sign. A person who is addicted to sex will masturbate while engaging in other sexual activities like watching porn or having phone sex.

(2) Their life is revolved around sex:

Whatever they are doing or saying are related to sex. They get depressed if they donโ€™t have satisfying sex or sex at all. They have fights with their significant others on the issue. sex addicts tend to think about how and when they are going to have their next sex. They think about sex so much that it has become their life. If such problems crop up, then the person is surely turning out to be a sex addict.

(3) Frequent use of online and phone sex services and watches pornography:

If the person frequently uses sex services online or over the phone, or frequently watches pornography and contents explicitly related to sex,  then it means they need sex to breathe which is a warning sign that itโ€™s not a necessity but rather a disorder.

 (4) They are infidel:

If the person is frequently having extramarital affairs or more than one sex partners or having sex with someone who is not their better-half, then thatโ€™s a sign of a hypersexual disorder. When this type of behaviour grows, the person is more likely to hire prostitutes to have their regular dosage of sex.

(5) They remain emotionally detached from their sexual partners:

They donโ€™t care about their sexual partnerโ€™s emotional needs. All they want from them is sex. Once itโ€™s done, they are over with it. They donโ€™t bother about that anymore.

Related: How Sex Pressure From Males Can Permanently Diffuse A Femaleโ€™s Sex Drive

(6) They frequently indulge in paraphilias:

Frequent indulgence in unusual sexual activities, paraphilias is an inkling that the person might be a sex addict. Itโ€™s not a good sign if the person is into paedophilia or voyeurism or masochism or activities like that.

(7) They are obsessed about the sexual partner they can never have sex with:

We all know about unrequited love. But this form of unrequited sex is not so beautiful. If a person is always obsessing about having sex with a partner they can never get, then itโ€™s not something normal. This obsession instigates the person to stalk their partner, spy on them, and even sexually assault them which is extremely dangerous for both the parties.

(8) They engage in sexual behaviour which is against their moral values:

If a person who is extremely committed to religion or abides by strong family values engages in abnormal sexual activities like paraphilias or have extramarital affairs or indulge in sex with strangers, then itโ€™s a warning sign that they are becoming sex addicts.

Related: Lady Gaga- Oprah Interview: The Lasting Effects Of Sexual Assault

(9) They canโ€™t stop no matter how much they want to:

If someone canโ€™t stop indulging infrequent and unusual sexual activities, then itโ€™s a red alert that they need help.

If you find one or more of these signs in someone you know, then you should call a therapist. The hypersexual disorder can be treated and the person can get back to the flow of life pretty soon.


Signs Hypersexual Disorder pin
Identifying Signs Of Hypersexual Disorder

— Share —

— About the Author —

Responses

  1. Bransun Mitchell Avatar
    Bransun Mitchell

    Everything about this article doesnโ€™t make sense, itโ€™s more like a slander of people with this disorder than it is a helpful or informative article. โ€œPeople with this disorder are infidel, not emotionally attached, or pedophilesโ€ although this disorder can lead in those directions most people with this still have normal human boundaries. It is highly inappropriate to ostracize and shame people with sexual problems. I hope the writer comes to think of the harm she is doing, and how she probably has no real understanding of the disorder itself.

Leave a Reply



Up Next

Revenge Bedtime Procrastination: Why You Sacrifice Sleep For ‘Me Time’

Warning Revenge Bedtime Procrastination Symptoms!

Do you find yourself wide awake at 2 a.m., scrolling through social media or binge-watching your favorite show, even though you know you have to get up early? Youโ€™re not alone! This might be one of the revenge bedtime procrastination symptoms.

This term might sound like it’s straight from a dramatic movie but, itโ€™s a real and relatable issue for many of us.

Read more here: How To Fall Asleep In 2 Minutes: Mastering The Military Sleep Technique

So, What Is Revenge Bedtime Procr



Up Next

Unsocial Media: The Real Effects Of More Screen Time

Serious Effects Of More Screen Time: Can It Truly Hurt You?

Spending too much time on social media can take a toll on your relationships and mental health. Letโ€™s explore how more screen time is affecting our lives in unexpected ways.

Loss of real-life interaction hampers social development.

Key points

A significant amount of real-life social interaction seems essential for the development of emotional and personal skills.

Research suggests that today’s youth has about half the exposure to critical real-life social interaction that pre-internet generations did.

Trends in poor social development among young people suggest the need for urgent attention and specific strategies to enhance s



Up Next

Is He Silently Struggling? 8 Symptoms Of Depression In Men

Symptoms Of Depression In Men: Is He Silently Struggling?

When it comes to men and depression, the signs arenโ€™t always obvious. A lot of men hide what theyโ€™re going through on the inside, making it harder to spot the symptoms of depression in men. Men have been conditioned to believe for years that they should never talk about their feelings openly.

This is the reason why it’s really hard to understand when they are struggling with mental health. They often donโ€™t talk about their feelings openly, and instead, they may show different signs that are easy to overlook.

But male depression is real, and the sooner itโ€™s recognized and dealt with empathy, the sooner they can get the help they need.

In this article, weโ€™re going to break down eight common symptoms of depression in men in a way that makes sense, so you know what to look out forโ€”whether itโ€™



Up Next

Parentification: How To Know If You Grew Up Too Fast

Parentification: How To Know If You Grew Up Too Fast

Parentification takes place when the needs of the parent come before those of the child. It results in a role reversal where the child takes on responsibilities that should belong to the parent.

You may not realize you’ve been parentified because you didn’t have to cook dinner or care for younger siblings. If you had to manage your parent’s emotions or act as their confidante, however, that is parentification, too.

For example, at age 16 my mother confided in me about her extra-marital affair including all her feelings about both the man and my father. This is an obvious role reversal because instead of serving as my emotional support, she made me hers.

If you had to



Up Next

Fear of Rejection? Here’s How to Finally Overcome It

Fear of Rejection? Here's How to Finally Overcome It

We often think of fear of rejection in terms of feeling cast out from the group or abandoned. This fear is a common symptom of complex ptsd, due to rejection by the primary caregiver.

However, a subtler form of rejection can make you avoid asking for what you want. You fear this perceived rejection (and it is only perception) so much that youโ€™d rather eliminate any chance of getting what you want than ask for it.

The fear that prevents you from asking for what you want is the chance you might hear the word โ€˜noโ€™. Thatโ€™s because as a child, being told you couldnโ€™t have what you wanted was so commonplace youโ€™ve come to expect it.

Thatโ€™s not to say you will never hear โ€˜noโ€™ when yo



Up Next

How To Overcome Black And White Thinking: 3 Things You Need To Do Break Free

Black And White Thinking: Things You Need To Do Break Free

One of the many outcomes of childhood trauma is black and white thinking. This is the all or nothing mentality that leaves no room for two things to be true at once.

If your home life was chaotic and traumatic, black and white thinking may have given you a sense of control. It allowed you to organize things into distinct categories of good and bad or right and wrong with no room for overlap.

That’s why you found yourself holding someone on a pedestal when you met them. Then downgrading them to evil when they let you down or made a mistake.

Your immature inner child would not let you label them a good person who did a bad thing. It had to be all or nothing. This is how complex-PTSD has robbed yo



Up Next

10 Microadventures You Can Try Right Now!

Simple Microadventures For A Quick Dopamine Boost

We all know the feelingโ€”waking up and going through the same motions day in and day out. It can start to feel like life is on repeat, and suddenly, everything seems a bitโ€ฆ dull. We humans aren’t wired for monotony – our brains crave new experiences and little bursts of excitement. When we try something new or break out of our routine, our brains release dopamine, the “feel-good” chemical. These chemicals can lift your mood and give you a quick happiness boost. So, if your daily routine is feeling a bit stale, maybe it’s time to spice things up with some microadventures.

Adventures do not always have to be globe-trotting escapades. If you’re more of a homebody, tied down by work, or just not in the mood to splurge on a big trip, thatโ€™s perfectly okay! Instead, you can try microadventures.

Microadventures are small, everyday ways to break out of your r