When Your Soulmate is not Single, It Might Actually Be A Good Thing

When Your Soulmate is not Single, It Might Actually Be A Good Thing

Sometimes it’s a good thing when who you believe is your soulmate in this life, is not single. This might sound absurd, but it is what it is. People spend years and years waiting for their soulmate, hoping to have the perfect relationship and finally get to end up with “The One”.

Nonetheless, not for everybody things turns out the way they are supposed to. It so happens that sometimes even when they find them, they are not single.

Who anyway do we see single nowadays? But isn’t the idea absurd of meeting the soulmate after all and not be able to do anything about it? Is there really a plan that destiny has for us then?

Sometimes, people find their soulmates in a committed relationship or even married. This brings about a fair doubt in their minds if the notion of having a soulmate in life is even a thing.

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It hardly makes sense that the destiny would create someone for you and not have them be with you. The ridiculousness of the situation seems to kill the purpose of even having a soulmate.

So is there a reason why they exist? Is it mandatory that every person has one?

When Your Soulmate is not Single

Here’s the answer to a collection of queries and doubts that one has when such a situation arises in life. Everything is written in everyone’s destiny. It is fate and only fate that determines when two soulmates are meant to meet each other.

When Your Soulmate is not Single, It Might Actually Be A Good Thing
When Your Soulmate is not Single, It Might Actually Be A Good Thing

There is a possibility that when you meet them, they are already in a relationship with someone else but this may be just to give them some lucidity on what they really want for themselves and what exactly do they seek in a person they intend to be in a relationship with.

What happens next is not that simple. The things take their regular course and happen when they are meant to happen.

The complexity of these circumstances lies under the likelihood of them taking away lots of learning and experiences from their existing relationship that might be crucially helpful in being conducive to the future relationship that you would have with your soulmate.

Your meeting them at the time when they are committed to someone else can help them see you through a different lens and clearly make out how exactly things would be special when they are with you. At first, it might appear too good to be true but later you realize the importance of such incidents.

Not every person is comfortable or believes in the concept of ‘soulmates’ which is why people are seldom ready to wrap their minds around the image of being with someone they are meant to be with.

It might lead them to freak out and ultimately fail at handling the gift they were blessed with. It is better to work through the challenges associated with being in a relationship beforehand. On the other hand, people get horribly upset when they see their soulmates in a relationship with someone else. They tend to blame themselves at times for these circumstances which, in fact, they have no control over. They even begin to curse their own lives.

Little do they know about the plans God has for them. There is a big reason behind everything that happens. All you have to do is believe in yourself and have faith in your destiny for the things that you do not control.

5 thoughts on “When Your Soulmate is not Single, It Might Actually Be A Good Thing”

  1. Avatar of Deepika S

    I met my twin a very strong soul connection with a person , there were few misunderstandings and delays due to which he got into another relationship and recently got married , I was devasted and broke and dead from inside when I saw his marriage posture , why would this happen , when we can’t get along why to meet such a soul connection ,what is the point , it’s just a waste of time and heart break in return which will be never healed and always remembered . Sometimes I feel being a human itself is a curse .the most terrific world is a humans world .

  2. Avatar of Amy jay

    This is the truth. His awakening and although it saddened me to see him with her. I knew the love i feel is between us and no one else.

  3. Avatar of Kimberly Smith

    I met my soulmate in high school . I knew he was the one when we met . but the hard part is that after high school everyone go’s their own way I tried to keep in touch but it was very hard I moved to the Midwest went to college made new friends dated different guys .as my soulmate he met another girl and married the town skank as the girl was called in high school . How ever my feeling’s for my soulmate are still very strong. I still feel him in life even though we are not together anymore I must be losing my mind or maybe from time to time he still thinks about me too

  4. Avatar of Corrie brinkley
    Corrie brinkley

    I’ve met my soul mate one of us is married one in a long term relationship and it’s a curse but he doing what he needs to do and I’m letting him to do what he needs to do unconditional love but it is so frustrating painful lonely not to be with him and waiting for him when I am with someone to it so unfair on my partner as one day I am going to leave him because I don’t love him anymore I love my soulmate just a waiting game

    1. Avatar of Anna Skarzynski

      I understand where you are coming from, who I thought was my soulmate is now married with kids. God told me to move on, the guy in a sense told me to move on as he told me that he is married. I keep hoping he will come back, but it seems he gets angry at the thought of it, as I wrote to him, telling him of this, and he just said it is inappropriate. Well, if it doesn’t happen, I will be okay as I will understand it wasn’t intended that way. And from the looks and the feeling that I get of it, it wasn’t. Nowadays, I just feel lost and confused, but also I guess lonely. Then again, I know I am marching onto a brighter future.

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