Your forever person is someone whom you can trust with your thoughts, words, and with your life. The person who will make love feel like forever, and not just a passing phase. So, what do you need in a forever person?
The following article talks about our innate needs for our forever person, based on our zodiac signs. Find out what do you need in a forever person.
What You Need In A Forever Person According To Your Zodiac Sign
1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You’re an enthusiastic person, Aries. You love wildness. You love to exercise courage. And everyone is always amazed by your transparency. Hence, what you need in a forever person is energy, someone who’s also always on the go. Someone who’s as honest and bold as you are.
Your forever person does not show timidity but is quick to act no matter what their actions may entail. They are always willing to match your energy. They are not surprised by your erratic behavior and decisions, and even by the number of people who misunderstand you for your audacious personality.
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
What is yours SHOULD always be yours. You’re stubborn who always gets what they want. So for you, a forever person should be someone who’s loyal. You barely care about the other flaws.
You can accept them wholeheartedly as long as they can always guarantee they’re yours. What you need in a forever person is security, things like letting you check their phone at random moments, letting you witness their interactions with other people, letting you know who they are with are good points for you.
Your forever person does not despise you when you’re being paranoid, but they just see it as a sign that you know your worth well and that you don’t deserve unfaithfulness.
3. Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Gemini, you’re symbolized by a twin. And so you’re one of the people who (sorry to break this to you) finds it hard to be alone. You can be! But you’ll make a way to find a partner as soon as possible. That’s okay because you enjoy the adventure.
Once you find your forever person, they must be someone who’s reaaaalllyyy communicative. Expressive of what they feel and attentive to what you’re saying. You value communication very much because you know it’s the biggest connection you have with a person. Someone who’s not as talkative as you are may turn you off. Or at least, they should guarantee they’re always listening to your rants and dramas. To your excitement and monotony. What you need in a forever person is responsiveness.
4. Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
The emotional, quiet zodiac sign. You’re a sensitive soul. Your forever person is definitely someone who is committed, loving, and sensitive as well. Someone who understands your deepest thoughts and changing moods. They are ready for your distant personality because you always long for personal space and time. What you need in a forever person is care.
This forever person, despite knowing your weaknesses, stays because they are confident you truly love them and that you’re 100% loyal to them. They know you don’t have time for immature games and they know your need for their presence in your life. They are patient with your unpredictable behavior. They do things like cooking for you, taking care of you when you’re sick, caressing you from time to time. They spoil you. You’re a baby to them, Cancer.
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Hello, your majesty. You’re the leader in the relationship, but you’re romantic as hell. Your forever person will do everything for you just to please you. They do not get intimidated by your high ambitions both in your life and your relationship. They trust your decisions because they can see that it’s out of true love anyway. What you need in a forever person is understanding.
Even though you’re acting like the boss in the relationship, they are in awe of your independence. They appreciate how you value both yourself and your love life. Your forever person supports you in every aspect. They do not sulk if you have to do overtime, if you choose to join an organization that might consume your time together, or if you just want to spend your weekends for your passion. They do not get offended and scared. They know you can offset it with your romantic deeds.
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Down-to-earth. Practical. Logical. You’re someone who lives around reality. Your forever person understands that you are not after wild goals. They know that you live according to your means and that your principles are always based on tangible, self-evident ideas. This means that they understand if you don’t want to have this big celebration for your anniversary. They understand if your presents for them are usually useful ones rather than fancy, high-end ones.
And most especially, they understand if you decide to let your relationship cool down until it works out again instead of forcing each other to quickly fix the problem. Your forever person knows that feelings cannot control you. That your brain is the master of your heart and not the other way around. And yet they love how you always wake them up to reality. What you need in a forever person is a logical mind.
7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You are obsessed with equilibrium. You see everything equally by critically thinking about it. No wonder your forever person is as deeply understanding as you are. Someone who envisions and weighs things out. Who does not react right away but does empathize with people and see themselves in every situation. They know why it takes long before you decide and respond to anything and it’s because you are carefully navigating your thoughts. What you need in a forever person is balance.
They never want to take advantage of your being considerate. They return the favor you give because they know you want a fair exchange of energies.
They do not get angry right away and they never want to mess up with you because once you explode, they know that it has already taken a lot of energy from you. Your forever person cherishes your kindness, your slow-but-sure decisions, and your sincere empathy. They will save you from being a pushover sometimes, and they will never cause your indignation.
8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
Your venom warns everyone around not to mess with you. You’re a cynic but definitely in need of love. For you, a forever person is someone trustworthy. Someone who can never provoke your sting. Someone who can never betray you. You may be scary but they shouldn’t be afraid of you as long as they gain and maintain your trust. And with trust, grows intimacy.
You are a sucker for physical affection and therefore your forever person should satisfy you most in bed. You have this discriminating taste when it comes to lovemaking. They should make sure you’re enjoying every deed and be wanting more. What you need in a forever person is devotion.
9. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Adventurous and humorous. You’re always out for the good vibes and so you need someone who can tolerate your loudness and enjoys your bubbly personality. You’re that insouciant person who doesn’t give a damn about anything. Your forever person is, therefore, someone who is upbeat and jovial. It would turn you off once you see they’re part of being reserved and gloomy. They should be as fun as you are. Or, they should always laugh at your jokes.
They know how lucky they are to have you because you have this magic of assuaging tough situations. Your forever person is someone who knows what you really feel inside. They know when you’re just feigning happiness. They know when you’re actually having storms within. What you need in a forever person is a best friend. Someone whom you can show who you really are at all times. They laugh and cry with you.
10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
You’re an old soul, Capricorn. You have this maturity that may intimidate others. You are always hard-working and sometimes unemotional. So a forever person for you is someone who can take you out of your shell. Someone who entices you to enjoy life and gives you the taste of YOLO mentality. They will give you joy that you’ve never experienced but at the same time, they support you for being responsible.
It’s just that they serve as your escape whenever you feel inundated with everything you need to do. Your forever person will help you with your dreams and passion. They will make everything easy for you. They will not make you feel like you’re boring, but they will nurture you by delivering you from toxic, mundane routines. They spice up your monotonous world. What you need in a forever person are fun and excitement.
11. Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
You’re often considered weird for your behavior and thinking, but you charm people with your intelligence. With that fact, a forever person for you is someone who adheres to your principles and who doesn’t laugh at them but studies them and lives up to them. They are not ashamed of how you think, of how you solve things differently, and they dive into your profoundness.
They know that behind that serenity are boisterous voices of wild ideas and radical conceptions. Your forever person is a sapiosexual. They love your depth because they learn from it and they feel like they imbibe your wisdom. They will always love to discover and realize things with you. You’ll share philosophies to be put at the center of your relationship. What you need in a forever person is a thirst for knowledge.
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
The most romantic, sweetest sign. You enjoy tangible affection and you never find it cringe-worthy. A forever person for you is simply someone who’s a bit childish too. Someone who gets jealous. Someone who still wants to exchange cute presents with you. Someone who is clingy and does a pinky promise every time you get back together after a petty fight. You enjoy these things, Pisces, and you will never want someone who’s too serious and mature. What you need in a forever person is a young heart.
Your forever person appreciates your childish romance and even if they can’t fully match your affectionate and expressive love, they will allow you to grow. They will find you high-maintenance but they will never get tired of making you happy. At the same time, they will be there to instill in you that it’s not supposed to be always a chocolates-and-flowers kind of love. They will widen your perspectives on love.
Written by Karla Crisostomo
Originally appeared on Thought Catalog
Printed with permission from the author
So, there you go. Let us know in the comments which zodiac sign you belong to, and what qualities do you need in a forever person.