This Is When You Are Gonna Miss Her Most

Have you ever felt like youโ€™re left with the feeling like something isย missing?ย Something very important is gone and no matter how you try, you wonโ€™t get it back. Itโ€™s her. That is the time you miss her.

Sheโ€™s not the type of person you miss when she leaves. In fact, you might not even notice sheโ€™s gone initiallyโ€ฆ because well you thought sheโ€™d always be there.

Sheโ€™ll casually go without a goodbye or some grand exit because it was hard for her to give up on you. It was hard for her to walk away and not look back. It was hard for her to accept no matter how hard she tried, you never were going to reciprocate was she both wanted and deserved.

She was around and gave you so much attention so often you took her for granted. Youโ€™re still going to think sheโ€™s someone you can pick and choose when you want to. What you donโ€™t realize is she made the choice to walk away already.

And it broke her heart to do so. But she had to because you left her with no other choice. If you werenโ€™t going to appreciate her presence sheโ€™d make you realize what you lostย in her absence.

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Missing her.

miss her

Itโ€™s going to happen when you least expect it. Youโ€™ll see her somewhere and she might not even notice you at first. Sheโ€™ll be so consumed by the attention of someone else.

A smile. A nod. A casual conversation where youโ€™re talking but not actually saying anything.

Youโ€™ll look at this person who is making her smile so big and thatโ€™s when itโ€™s going to hit how pretty she is when sheโ€™s happy. But you never saw that side of her because all you did was disappoint her and let her down and bring out the worst of her.

You never saw how torn up she was about every little thing. But she lost sleep over you. You spent too much time talking about yourself. Too much time emotionally invested. And when youโ€™re emotionally invested in someone you donโ€™t see how bad they are for you sometimes.

Maybe someone will mention her in conversation and ask you how sheโ€™s doing because there was a time you knew. There was a time you were very much a part of her life and so involved you could answer on her behalf because you knew about every good day and a bad one.

Youโ€™ll freeze for a moment and youโ€™ll answer good but the truth is youโ€™re finding out about her life the way everyone else is. Through social media. Instagram posts. FB updates. Snap stories. And you arenโ€™t hearing from her firsthand like you used to.

Itโ€™s Going To Hurt A Bit Once You Realize That.

Youโ€™ll go to text her and youโ€™ll realize you donโ€™t even know how to say hello. Youโ€™ll realize there are so many things you want to tell her. And you think back to a time when every conversation she made about you.

Evenย when you ignored herย sheโ€™d send a double text continuing to try and keep the conversation going. Youโ€™ll stare at her name on your phone, looking back at the date of the last time you spoke and youโ€™ll realize how long itโ€™s been. But whatโ€™s going to hurt more is that it took you this long to realize she was already gone.

Whatโ€™s Going To Hurt Is The Moment You Realize You Did Nothing To Make Her Want To Stay.

Youโ€™ll miss the little details of her life even the things she used to complain about.

Youโ€™ll miss even the things that used to annoy you about her. How long her texts were, how sheโ€™d answer in less than 5 seconds making it so easy. How predictable she was and how you thought sheโ€™d always be there. Because no matter what you did or how you treated her it never altered the way she treated you.

Youโ€™ll miss having someone who genuinely cared about you. Someone who took time out of their day to ask how you were and wait for an answer. Someone who went out of their way and always made sure they were there. Someone who took the time to learn and understand you. Someone who wanted to know about your past to understand why you were the way you were. Someone who would have gone to the ends of the earth to make you happy and never stopped praising you or building you up even if you were knocking her down.

Youโ€™ll miss her late at night when youโ€™re laying there alone and you realize thereโ€™s no one to talk to. And itโ€™s not just her you miss itโ€™s the conversations you used to have, how sheโ€™d get you to a place no one else could. How sheโ€™d get you thinking about things caring about things, believing in things even if it was you yourself. After talking to her she thought you could do anything because thatโ€™s how much she believed in you.

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Youโ€™ll find yourself driving and a song will start playing and youโ€™ll freeze for a moment thinking of her. Itโ€™s one of the songs she made you listen to and itโ€™s only now you realize why.ย It was just another clever way of her saying she cared without spelling it out.

Youโ€™ll drive past a place and itโ€™s her ghost youโ€™ll see there as flashbacks run through your mind of when you were there together and things were so different. Youโ€™ll think back to a time when you knew she cared even when you didnโ€™t. Moments where she poured her heart out to you and all you did was listen.

And youโ€™ll hate yourself for realizing it too late that you really do care. Maybe you always have. And you probably always will care a little bit. Thatโ€™s the thing about girls like her, they come into your life just long enough to leave a lasting impression before they take off again. Forever leaving a little bit of an imprint on your heart.

Sheโ€™ll leave and you wonโ€™t even be able to be angry at her for it. Youโ€™re more so angry at yourself for not realizing what you had when you had it.

Youโ€™ll gain and sheโ€™ll smile and hug you and ask how you are because she doesnโ€™t hold it against you for not caring. But what she doesnโ€™t realize is how you do care.

But you let her go on her way not saying anything because even you know, she deserves better and it wasnโ€™t supposed to end this way.


Written By: Kirsten Corley
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