The 3 Negative Effects Of Social Media On Our Life

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negative effects of social media on our life

The social media craze invites certain unavoidable damages in our lives.

Have you ever gotten yelled at because of some three calls that eventually ended up being three Missed Calls and you never called back?

How many times have you gotten pissed at somebody because of a text that went without being replied to for the entire ten minutes? Or how about the dreaded “missed 13 calls from ‘Mom’”? Do you think Mom had these sorts of troubles? Or dad? Half their stories start with ‘in our times and most of those ends with ‘it is all because of that mobile phone of yours.

Our time is defined by readily available technology. With readily available cell phones came the onslaught of facilities to make those phones more efficient. That brought in reduced call rates, free SMS schemes, free incoming calls and these further inspired Instant Messaging, media sharing, and sustaining this: longer battery span.

And then they decided we weren’t smart enough to handle all this awesomeness, so they introduced “Smart” phones: Smartphones with the internet and much, much faster messaging apps and even video calls.

Without these, for all that I am about to write, even I feel lost with a sudden absence of my phone. But there are days l really don’t see the point of all this artificial smartness surrounding me. Not because I feel dumb — I do, sometimes, but because it is frustrating and I have been in weird arguments that I am sure would have never come up without social media specifically.

Yes, that thing where you can go through everybody’s life stories and talk to strangers via their specialized apps and feel a false sense of glorification on the basis of the number of people who claimed to have liked your life-happenings by hitting a “like” button.

You may not agree, or may even not relate to this; it is a free country unless you are not in one — in which case, maybe you should write about your life.

Social Media these days is a word that seems to me like it is waiting to convert itself into Social Evil. Personally, I am sure it is. What began as a platform to connect with people has become a gala to exhibit one’s non-existent life.

It is a virtual world of immoral practices; of lies, deceit, and betrayal; of clever pictures, and cleverer wordplay. All of which creates nothing but complexes: inferiority and superiority both.

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The major Social Damages done by Social Media are all individual and vary from person to person.

1. The Major Thing Damaged, Is Tolerance.

The 3 Negative Effects Of Social Media On Our Life

One sassy status, one opinionated comment, one unsettling post, are all enough to get some people’s flares up.

For all our talk about freedom, we can’t seem to digest one comment from somebody who has a different view on something that is apparently not even so important in the long run of our own survival.

And not just on things people disagree about — what’s with all the haters posting meaningless, rude stuff on harmless pictures of mildly famous personalities? More like ‘why?’ As in, why all this unnecessary negativity?

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2. Damage Would Be Jealousy.

The 3 Negative Effects Of Social Media On Our Life

Ohh No!!!

I have had varied sorts of friends and some of them are stuck to their phones. Half their conversations are about what went on in their social media ‘newsfeed’.

The other half is about how certain people always manage to procure a certain amount of likes on pictures where they are only yawning or something like that.

Most of the time, these are not even strangers. Friends getting jealous of their own best friends because her college pictures look very ‘happening’ or his job takes him to some really awesome places, or because all their pictures ‘probably look nice only because they have a high-end camera’.

Friendships are not the only ones being tainted by jealousy. Social media is hands down, a good way to share your pictures.

Also, sometimes, the beginning of a bad conversation. A friend of mine always had her ex-boyfriend asking her why she needed to have so many guys in her friend circle. (The fact that he is ‘ex’ now, says a lot about how that relationship turned out eventually.)

Every picture she put up and every picture she got tagged in was an open invitation for the ex-bf to start about how those guys were waiting for a chance to be more than friends and all other nonsense.

In his defense, social media does seem to glam up the reality. (In her defense, he had insecurities about other things and he had to go.)

3. The Damage That I Personally Hate Is Impatience.

The 3 Negative Effects Of Social Media On Our Life

With smarter apps, everyone can see when one is available online if their message was delivered or not if you have seen their messages or not, and all your general whereabouts.

With that, you get the accusations of ‘you ignored me and the cutting questions of ‘who were you talking to that is so important than me’. Sigh. I have been in many arguments arising from this. And nobody believes ‘I was busy’ anymore. Well, I really am most times, but somehow ‘I was pooping and then I forgot’ has become more acceptable.

Strange world.

Social Media has its good points just like it has its bad points. I like the daily ‘Good Morning’ and the cute-nothings I receive every morning. And there are many other things that I can write another thousand words about. But the bad side cannot be simply ignored.

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Social Media has given us the power to express ourselves both knowingly and anonymously. With great power comes great responsibility, and social media shows us why not everyone can be a superhero.

Look at how these power-wielders use it. Look at the statistics of how many rude comments line up under every viral post compared to the genuinely encouraging ones.

How many times have you justified your being online, your indecent ‘last seen’s, and how many times have you assured people that your status is not a taunt and your profile picture is nothing serious, but you are just sharing? How many times?

No one can deny our endangered privacy just like nobody can deny the perks of social media.

Relationships are rare jewels and social trends are fickle fortunes: my words can’t make you realize which one you have to value above the other.

It is entirely your responsibility to derive that conclusion on your own: you do have that sort of power after all.


The Unwanted and Often Unavoidable Damages Social Media Has In Our Lives
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