When it comes to love, most of us are slightly mistaken in what it is and how we think we will find it. First and foremost, finding the right partner requires you to be the right person.
There are so many of my friends who complain about life and say if only they had a nice girlfriend everything would work out great for them. Well, that is a mistake no 1. There is nothing so magical about another human being that they will come into your life and with just one swipe of their hand make everything alright. If you think you need a girlfriend so that you can finally be happy, you are looking at it wrong.
It is nice to think that the right partner could be the solution to all your problems, but the truth is different, and unless you accept it, you are setting yourself for a very bad fall. Because if you get into a relationship with hopes of everything being perfect and whatnot, and then you see it is not as picture-perfect as you believed- you will be disappointed and disgruntled.
Many people might have an idea of what I am saying because they have experienced it firsthand. However, that does not necessarily mean that they remembered it for the next time. And they go about making the same presumption again and again.
Your State Of Mind Defines What Kind Of Relationship You Will Have With Your Partner
Stop looking for the right partner. Focus on your goals and rebuilding your life. The right person will eventually find their way to you.
Ever heard that if you want good in your life then you have to do good. The same applies to relationships as well. When you enter a relationship, completely happy and content with whom you are, and your life, the chances of that relationship being successful are much higher. Anytime a new girl spends time with you she notices the little things which tell a lot about your quality of life.
When you are happy and content with what you have, you come off as a genuine and happy person. And believe me, this is a very positive sign for any lady. Also how you live your life describes a lot about you.