There is a difference between being loved and being controlled – do not let your possessive partner let you believe otherwise.
Have you wondered whether you are in one of those obsessive relationships, where you are too emotionally and physically dependent on your partner?
Do you only spend time with your partner? Does your lover check your phone daily? Are they jealous of your friends? If yes, then you just might have a possessive boyfriend or girlfriend with some serious boundary issues.
There is nothing worse than this that you can do, that you are capable of: reducing a being to a thing. And that’s what possession is.
Don’t be sorry for being too sweet, too attached, too caring.