Splitting can be unhealthy for relationships. It keeps the “good” and loved aspects of our partner separate from the “bad” and hated aspects of them.
fear of abandonment
Reading me inch by inch. Letting me open to you, and again repeating the history.
Abandoning me at the same;
Fear of abandonment fear is over-powering because it brings back the deep trauma that we carry from when we were little children, being thrown into this world as helpless beings, utterly dependent on those around us.
Many people have a fear of abandonment, but love addicts are terrified of it. They also fear rejection and the feeling that they will be deprived of romantic love.