You often lead your life without understanding why and what is happening to you. You just go through the motions and follow all the rules to have a ‘good’ life, because that’s what society expects you to do. But then comes a point when you notice that your life isn’t as good as you thought it was, and that is the time you need to change your life.
The main issue here is to understand and recognize that change is in order and you should embrace it with open arms. Life is dynamic, and the more you stay stuck in one place, you will never see any growth. Sure, the comfort zone feels comfortable for a reason, but if you stay stagnant there forever, you will never be able to experience life in its full glory.
Here Are 10 Signs It’s Time To Change Your Life
1. Every week you desperately wait for Friday to come.
If you are living your life waiting desperately for every weekend to come, then you are not doing it right. You are just existing and going through the motions; you are not happy with how your life is. Sure weekends can be fun because you can let go, spend time with loved ones, and do something else apart from work. But if weekends are the only good thing in your life, then it’s high time you change it.
When you are doing work you genuinely love, you will always be having fun and not just on the weekends. If your job is making you miserable, then maybe it’s time to change it. Do something that makes you happy to wake up in the morning and go to work. Get a job that excites you, even on Mondays.
2. You don’t know what your priorities are.
When you feel lost in life, and you don’t know what your priorities are, then it’s a big sign that you need to change your life. Going with the flow at times is a good thing, but sometimes you need to look at the bigger picture too. What you prioritize today will play a big role in shaping your future tomorrow.
Note down your top 5 priorities and think about whether you are actuallyy prioritizing them or not. Are you saving enough money for your retirement? Do you want to give up any bad habits? Are you spending enough time with your close ones? Questions like these can help you understand what your priorities are, and the more you think about them, the more you will have clarity.
3. Going to work every day is like torture.
If you have a career that’s blazing ahead and suddenly you find yourself hating the prospect of going to work- you have a problem at hand! Typically, most distressed people find it hard waking up every morning and going to work even more painful. In case you are one of them, you may be fatigued or tired, or even depressed. What you are doing is not giving you even an ounce of happiness, it’s just adding to your troubles.
If your job is making you this depressed and miserable, then it’s a sign that you need to change things in your life. Maybe you need some professional help to deal with these negative feelings. Maybe you need to spend more time with people who care about you so that things don’t always feel so grim. Or maybe you need to look for a job that makes you happy, not depressed.
4. You find yourself feeling jealous more often than not.
Whenever you see someone on social media posting about how great their life is, you feel a fit of burning jealousy in yourself. Whenever you see someone posting about the new car they bought, you hate them. Whenever you see someone going on an exotic vacation, you feel envious. If you feel jealous about seeing other people being happy and successful, then you need to think about why you are feeling this way and what it means.