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10 Steps For Keeping Yourself Safe From Domestic Violence

This ongoing pandemic has truly changed the world and how humans live. For some of us, we are getting to spend more time with our families and doing everything we have always wanted to do, but couldn’t due to hectic lifestyles. That’s an amazing thing, isn’t it? But for some, this pandemic has made their lives a living hell. Victims of domestic violence are going through a terrifying time, as they are stuck at home with their abusers, with nowhere to hide.

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Calls to domestic violence helplines are skyrocketing with helpline numbers and the police receiving calls about abuse every 20 minutes. Unimaginable, isn’t it? Leaving an abusive relationship might seem easy, but more often than not, it’s one of the most difficult things a victim can do. It’s not that simple, as there is still a huge risk to their lives.

Abusers don’t let their victims leave that easily. How many times have we read headlines like “Abusive Ex-Husband Fatally Shoots Ex-Wife For Leaving Him.”? So, no. Asking ‘why didn’t she just leave?’ is dangerously ignorant. It’s not as simple as people perceive it to be.

But that does not mean you have to be stuck in that situation forever. As long as you plan everything immaculately, there is a high chance that you will be able to save yourself from this.

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Here Are 10 Steps For Keeping Yourself Safe From Domestic Violence

1. Zero in on who you can trust. 

The very first thing you should think about is who you can trust blindly to aid you in escaping from a situation like this. You have to be extra careful and not just trust someone, just because you are close to them. Ask for help from someone who will be ready to assist you throughout the whole thing, and not someone who will run the moment something goes wrong. 

Because you will be living with your abuser, you might not be able to buy all the necessities yourself. So, you can ask this friend to do that for you and get it delivered to their address or the address you provide them with. This person should have the capability to help you with your preparation and also help you with handling everything perfectly. 

 

2. Point out what kind of things you should pack. 

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Even though trying to escape from domestic violence is a big step in itself, you also need to plan a little bit, so that you can survive properly. Once you leave, do not look back or go back to your abusive partner at any cost. In order to make sure that you will be fine on your own, you need to prepare a few things beforehand.

Decide what kind of clothes you will need, especially when it comes to your children. Make sure that you pack their school uniforms, school shoes, and their books. Apart from that, pack in enough money to last you for a few weeks, enough clothes and shoes for yourself, medicines, toiletries, important certificates, passport, official documents, bank documents and your social security number. 

Want to know more about why some men take to domestic violence? Read How Society Teaches Men To Abuse Women – A Man’s Perspective

 

3. Register for different kinds of assistance. 

When you are on your own, you will need to do everything you can to take care of yourself and your kids. Going back to your abuser for any kind of assistance is strictly a no-no. That is why you need to know exactly what you have to do to protect and assist yourself.

If you have a caseworker, then request them to insert a domestic violence waiver in your file. This will stop them from taking into your abuser’s income and other financial information for consideration, and will also stop them from requesting it.

Additionally, apply for ample food stamps, medical assistance, and public assistance. 

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Alexandra Hall
Hi there! I am someone who is trying to navigate through life, one day at a time. Writing is my passion and my job, and I am happiest when I am writing. I love reading comic books, watching drama movies, playing with my dogs and generally lazing around. An introvert by nature, you can find me in the farthest corner of the room in every party, playing with the dog and having my own party.
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