Staying calm in the midst of chaos is the most advantageous move you can make.
You may or may not know that I live in Palm Bay, Florida. It’s a coastal town that borders the Atlantic ocean. As a result, I have a bit of experience in preparing for life’s hurricanes (quite literally!).
And each time a hurricane rolls into town, I become even more aware of energy exchange and the importance of staying calm.
Ultimately, how we react to situations translates into our reality. Freaking out causes more accidents, stressors and problems. Staying calm allows us to prepare mindfully and deliberately without distraction.
As a Law of Attraction coach and someone who is pretty “mellow” most of the time, even I can get swept up in the chaos if I’m not focused on keeping myself balanced. The preparation for Hurricane Irma has been a reminder of this to me this week.
Driving around my town the past couple of days I’ve seen quite a few car accidents and people running into other problems and conflicts. My thoughts? Stress from the hurricane (which isn’t here yet) is leading some people to real-time problems and dangers in the present moment.
So today, I’d like to share some things I’ve come to learn about dealing with collective fear and panic. Should you ever find yourself in the path of potential danger, I hope these lessons I’ve learned will be helpful to you.
Lesson 1: Know the difference between YOUR fear and THEIR fear
Many of us are highly intuitive and empathic. This is a gift, as it helps us understand each other quite well!
However, in the face of a “threat,” you will often come to notice that your fear meter can get triggered to a higher-than-usual level, simply by being around groups of fearful people.
For example, in preparing for a hurricane you may find yourself at the grocery story picking up supplies like water and bread.
Circling the store you may notice that your heart-rate and excitement level start to elevate, as you pick up on the fear generated from the collective group around you.
Bearing witness to other people racing around, their concerned faces and fearful voice tones can alert your empathic senses to the anxiety pulsing through the collective.
If we aren’t mindful of this, we can easily take on other people’s fear as our own.
So in situations like these, I’ve found it’s quite helpful for me to stay grounded in public. Perhaps pop in some earbuds with some soothing music or do some slow deep breathing.
Walk slower, rather than faster. Set the pace for being calm rather than getting sucked into the tide of panic.
And if need be, take a break from the public. Sometimes it’s best to remember if the disaster is still off in the distance you have time to relax. Take a nap, meditate or do something fun for a little bit.
Lesson 2: Remember, you only create from the NOW
Here’s another thing that is always very helpful for me to remember: Reality is constructed now, and only now.