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We Often Stay In Abusive Relationships Because of Trauma Bonding

Those who have never been in an abusive relationship struggle to understand how people remain in one for so long. If somebody was mistreating you, "why did you stick around?" they ask.

The Narcissist And The People Pleaser

The Narcissist And The People Pleaser
The Narcissist gets their needs met, receiving constant adoration and praise. The People Pleaser feels fulfilled, finally appreciated for their care-taking.

The 5 Child Roles In Dysfunctional Families

The 5 Child Roles In Dysfunctional Families
In a two child family, most likely there will be a scapegoat and a golden child, but in larger families, there can also be a Lost Child, a Clown, and a Rescuer (codependent).

To Every Girl Who Has Ever Lost Herself To A Narcissistic...

To Every Girl Who Has Ever Lost Herself To A Narcissistic Man
The trust you had in him shattered and now you can’t trust anyone anymore.

5 Reasons Why We Are Attracted To Someone We Shouldn’t Be...

5 Reasons Why We Are Attracted To Someone We Shouldn't Be With
“Nice people don't necessarily fall in love with nice people.”

The Narcissistic Family Tree

The narcissistic family hides profound pain. Such families tend to operate according to an unspoken set of rules.

The Mental Murder Tactic – When The Narc Says ‘You Are...

The Mental Murder Tactic - When The Narc Says 'You Are Dead To Me'
‘Mental Murder’: Narcissists Pretend You’re Dead So You Don’t Destroy Their Fake World

This Is How You Survive The Narcissist’s Silent Treatment (without Completely...

This Is How You Survive The Narcissist's Silent Treatment (without Completely Losing Yourself)
How do you deal with living with a narcissist who is giving you the silent treatment? Someone who will co-exist with you in the same house while literally ignoring you? What if that goes on for days? Weeks?

8 Ways To Gracefully Survive A Toxic Family During The Holidays

8 Ways To Gracefully Survive A Toxic Family During The Holidays
“People will always notice the change in your attitude towards them. But they will never notice it’s their behavior which made you change.”

The Sad Truth About Why Psychopaths Are Unable to Love Even...

The Sad Truth About Why Psychopaths Are Unable to Love Even Their Own Children
Since narcissists are usually very insecure, they’ll use their child as a companion on whom they can unload their insecurities and get an ego boost.

The STRONG Emotional Reason Women Stay With An Abusive Partner

The STRONG Emotional Reason Women Stay With An Abusive Partner
You know in your heart that your relationship is a lost cause, and yet you stay with a man who is slowly destroying you.

The Reason Why The Girl Who Fixes People Often Ends Up...

The Reason Why The Girl Who Fixes People Often Ends Up In Toxic Relationships
She gives love without demanding it to be reciprocated and that’s when it becomes toxic.

5 Reasons You Still Miss Your Abusive Ex

5 Reasons You Still Miss Your Abusive Ex!
Well, the truth is, there is nothing wrong with you.

10+ Warning Signs You Are Dealing With An Evil Person

10+ Warning Signs You Are Dealing With An Evil Person
Spot these characteristics in someone and you can be sure that whatever good is left in them, they will use it against you.

Emotionally Abusive People And Their 20 Identifying Traits

Emotionally Abusive People And Their 20 Identifying Traits
The only way of escaping emotional abuse is to recognize the abuser’s method and running for your dear life.

9 Things A Narcissist Will Never Do For You (or Anyone...

9 Things A Narcissist Will Never Do For You (or Anyone Else)
What they want from everything and everyone is something which will benefit them.

Married to a Narcissist? Here’s what you can do!

A relationship with a narcissist is perhaps the toughest one to maintain, especially when it’s marriage. Read On To Know more

The Narcissistic Personality: Understanding Them And Ways To Better Tolerate Them

The Narcissistic Personality: Understanding Them And Ways To Better Tolerate Them
Narcissists victimize those around them just by just being who they are, and they won’t change.

12 Signs That Will Help You Spot A Person Who Is...

12 Signs That Will Help You Spot A Person Who Is Secretly Jealous Of You
It’s not easy to handle a jealous person. The following are 12 signs that will enable you to find out if someone around you is jealous.

Why It’s So Hard To Forgive Yourself And Trust Again After...

Why It’s So Hard To Forgive Yourself And Trust Again After A Toxic Relationship
You never really feel free from someone toxic because even when you walk away they hold you without touch.

The 3 Kinds of Narcissists To Watch Out For and Ways...

The 3 Kinds of Narcissists To Watch Out For and Ways To Deal With Them
They are not worried about the hurt they cause others as long as they get the attention and get to keep the spotlight.

What Is Post-Narcissist Stress Disorder (PNSD)? and its 3 Major Symptoms

What Is Post-Narcissist Stress Disorder (PNSD)? and its 3 Major Symptoms
People who have once shared their life with a narcissist may go through corresponding occurrences resembling the symptoms of PTSD.

Leaving a Sociopath – 5 Break Up Musts

Leaving a Sociopath – 5 Break Up Musts
Leaving a sociopath is no ordinary break up. It’s an escape from terror, abuse, and harm. Read On to know more.

Sleeping with a Monster: 13 Signs That You May Be Sleeping...

In the hands of a narcissist, sex can be used to have power and control over a person as opposed to deepening an intimate connection.

Unraveling PTSD after Narcissistic Abuse

Unraveling PTSD after Narcissistic Abuse
In order to unravel this puzzle, we must get back to the root cause: those unbearable feelings.

Why Daughters of Narcissists Are Drawn to Narcissistic Men

Why Daughters of Narcissists Are Drawn to Narcissistic Men
Daughters of narcissistic fathers may find themselves being retraumatized by predators who are very similar to their first male ‘role model.

This Is What Happens When You Leave A Narcissist?

This Is What Happens When You Leave A Narcissist?
The Narcissist is an EMOTIONAL VAMPIRE! Separate yourself from his kingdom of self if you want any identity of your own.

A Narcissist Will Do These 5 Signs To Be The Centre...

A Narcissist Will Do These 5 Signs To Be The Centre Of Attention.
It is by getting the spotlight that they try to establish their superiority over others and eventually get control of other’s lives.

This Is Why You Should Stop Wasting Time Arguing With Narcissistic...

This Is Why You Should Stop Wasting Time Arguing With Narcissistic People
The Only Person Who Ever Truly Benefits From Arguing With Them Is THEM

A Match Made In Hell: Narcissists and HSPs

For reasons no one seems to understand, Highly Sensitive People seem to be thrown together with Narcissists more than you would expect by chance alone.

9 Signs Of Manipulative Behavior You Should Watch Out For

9 Signs Of Manipulative Behavior You Should Watch Out For
Sometimes manipulative behavior might not be as overt as we think it is.

Toxic Narcissism in Relationships: Top 10 Warning Signs You’re Being Gaslighted

Toxic Narcissism in Relationships: Top 10 Warning Signs You’re Being Gaslighted
Top 10 Warning Signs You’re Being Gaslighted

Exposed! 10 Shocking Facts Your Narcissist Doesn’t Want You to Know

Exposed! 10 Shocking Facts Your Narcissist Doesn’t Want You to Know
Here are 10 very insightful points into the psyche of your everyday, average narcissist - and if you keep these in mind when you're dealing with one, you'll find yourself feeling much more in control of the situation. 

6 Warning Signs You Are Dealing With An Evil Person

6 Warning Signs You Are Dealing With An Evil Person
They conceal their evil intentions in the veil of love.

We Remain Stuck At The Mental Age Where We Received The...

We Remain Stuck At The Mental Age Where We Received The Least Love
People stay in the childhood state until they learn to love themselves.

The Narcissist’s Soulmate Scam: Identifying a Love Bomber

The Narcissist’s Soulmate Scam: Identifying a Love Bomber
In a normal relationship, you grow closer over a number of months or years. But when it comes to a narcissist, one of the biggest red flags early in a relationship is his blatant desire to move quickly. 

6 Diversion Tactics Used By Sociopaths, Narcissists and Psychopaths to...

6 Diversion Tactics Used By Sociopaths, Narcissists and Psychopaths to Manipulate You Into Silence
Watch out for these signs in a manipulator.

Beware! Here Are 7 Types Of People You Should Avoid At...

Being in company with such people can not only be tiring, it can cause you anxiety, stress or depression as well.

Things You Can Relate To If You Were Emotionally Neglected As...

Things You Can Relate To If You Were Emotionally Neglected As A Child
For some of us, childhood is a synonym of pain and loneliness and sadness and bad parents and what not. Here are 9 signs that show that you were emotionally neglected as a child:

Ways in Which Childhood Bullying Has Lifelong Effects on a Child’s...

Ways in Which Childhood Bullying Has Lifelong Effects on a Child's Mental Health
Childhood bullying is dangerous.  Researches show how children involved in bullying grow up into adults with mental health disorders. The article explores the probable effects of childhood bullying in grown up adults.