This is How A Man Will Truly Love You, Even When You Are at Your Worst

This is How A Man Will Truly Love You, Even When You Are at Your Worst

You want a man in your life who won’t call you crazy for the things he doesn’t understand but those things affect you.

He should be someone who can soothe you when you come back upset from the office. Before he asks you what happened he has the patience to comfort you, to make you feel alright. And when you tell him the reason behind your disappointment, he makes you wipe your tears and hugs you tight so that you forget all the pain. Yes, he will do it because he wants to make you happy even if he doesn’t understand the cause.

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This is How A Man Will Truly Love You, Even When You Are at Your Worst

You want a man in your life who never calls you silly.

He never thinks it’s bizarre when you scream at things like your phone or computer. He doesn’t let you face your problems and stands at a safe distance while you struggle. His comforting presence will never embarrass you to ask for help. You will never feel alone and he will make it known every moment.  You will know that you can fall back on him.

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You want a man who never blames you for being emotional.

A man who will understand the mood swings you have during your periods.

He loves you for being honest and clear and he knows you can do that because you are comfortable around him. He will not blame you when you become unreasonable or too sensitive. This is how a man will truly love you, even when you are at your worst.

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You want a man who will work at building a strong relationship with you.

He is someone who wants to be with you and for that he will try to resolve the problems you have with him. He will care to answer your texts and try to make you understand even though what you feel is not true. Instead of overlooking the relationship issues he will work on them. He wants a long-lasting relationship with you and not something for a short while.

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You want a man in your life who understands your gravest problems.

He never makes fun of you about suffering from depression or anxiety.

He will never tell you that you are a psychopath or crazy or mad. He will understand that you, at times, have no control over your emotions. He will know how anxiety gets the better of you and you behave oddly over things you don’t even care about.

 

You want a man who has emotions and reveals them freely in front of you.

He will shed tears unabashedly for the loss of a near and dear one.

He will not hide his emotions when he is stirred by a rom-com he watches with you. He is the man who doesn’t think he’s any less manly when he shares the innermost feelings of his soul. This man wants you to know all of him, even the things that he believes are his flaws.

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You want a man who loves you unconditionally.

He loves you for everything you are.

Your face doesn’t drive him away. He wants to wipe your tears away. For him, that is the mission of his life and he wants to do it because you are the one he has ever truly loved.

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43 thoughts on “This is How A Man Will Truly Love You, Even When You Are at Your Worst”

  1. I have depression and anxiety. I have dated men who have depression and anxiety as well, and they knew I had it too. When they were at their worst, I tried to help. I didn’t minimize their feelings or their problems, I didn’t call them irrational, emotional or dramatic because I knew how things were for people like us.
    Still, when they experience an anxiety attack from me, or a depressive episode from me, they ran away. They claimed a relationship with the both of us having depression and anxiety wasn’t possible after all, since they couldn’t have someone “with low self esteem” as them around, or that I was “too intense.” Later, with friends, I would hear how these men speak about me as irrational or dramatic.

    The way I see it, these people wanted to have a woman who had no issues at all. They were allowed to be as irrational, dramatic and angry as they pleased, and they wanted someone who brushed it all and offered a hand. But they didn’t want to be supportive in any way.
    Their anxiety and depressive moments weren’t less intense, irrational or emotional as mine. Still, I wasn’t allowed to show that ugly part of me to them. I wasn’t allowed to ask for their help. But I was suppose to be there for them the second they needed help.

    I know how intense I can be, that’s why I always give a heads up when a man wants to start something serious with me. I know no one is obliged to deal with my shit, so I always try to explain to them how things will be during my worst moments, so it’s not like they didn’t know what they were going to deal with. They just didn’t want to be part of, but depression and anxiety are a part of me, whether I like it or not.
    I once read that a person with these issues would find their soulmate in someone who had the same issues. Well, I’m telling you now: That’s bullshit. You’ll find your soulmate with someone who will not give up on you so easily and will understand that there is your true self, and there is you during an anxiety attack/depressive episode, and that that shit is not something that you have full control over. And if they have the same issues as you, they will be there for you the way you are for them. They won’t force you to suppress yourself during those ugly moments so they can only see you when you’re happy and well.

  2. Sorry but this is sexist, it should say – “This Is How A Person Will Truly Love You Even When You Are At Your Worst”, come on world, it is, afterall 2016!!!

  3. I tell you, these kinda expectations will ruin the reality. It’s good to read and feel like watching some fantasy movie or a good soothing romantic novel. Life isn’t fair and we gotta face it.

  4. this isn’t even real life…I have stopped searching for a man….. because there isn’t one………..I have had bad kind of thing you can think of happen to me and my family because of men……its scary to date now days…..not like you can do a back ground check without money or a lot of information….and there are so many cheaters out there….its sad it really is……

  5. Take it from me men. Do those things or see her lost. Don’t be a dumb fuck or try to be a hard ass. Show your love. Tell her every chance you get what she means to you. Real men show their love!

    1. I agree, Derek – the same is true for women – men can’t be expected to shoulder all of the emotional commitment in a relationship. Women like to play games, too!

  6. For me, there is nothing in life that feels as beautiful, inspirational and powerful as genuine, honest, unconditional love – especially when it’s mutual.

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