Love makes you feel happy, satisfied, and on top of the world! In today’s day and age, everyone is looking for love and that special someone, with whom they can spend their entire lives. But, the sad truth is, it seems like everyone is looking for a shortcut to find their soulmates. You are forgetting the most important thing that can help you find your soulmate, and that is none other than your intuition.
Your intuition is the most powerful weapon in your quest to find your soulmate and life partner. As long as you have trust in yourself and your feelings, you will definitely find the one you are looking for.
Finding Your Soulmate
The world of dating can be very confusing, especially with this day and age of apps and online dating.
Because there are so many choices, you inevitably decide to create a list of qualities and interests that you’re looking for, but you may not realize that you’re missing out on a great way to find your soulmate: using your intuition.
Without intuition, you get caught up in what you think you know in your search. The problem is that these actions are taken with your conscious mind, your ego, where finding love is a matter of the heart.
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“Giving someone a piece of your soul is better than giving a piece of your heart. Because souls are eternal.” – Helen Boswell
Only the heart knows what is really great for you, but the problem these days is that the mind is getting in the way. The mind’s argument can be that you can’t always trust the heart, that’s why you need to listen to your intuition.
The ultimate goal of a relationship is to teach you how to love, and in the process, there are many lessons to learn. Your heart knows of the lessons you have to learn, but your mind doesn’t.
Falling in love is the process of letting go of the ego, so how can the ego know what is really good for you? This is why the best guide is your intuition. It’s aligned with your higher purpose, as is your heart.
So How Do You Use Intuition?
1. First is to be open to the fact that you may need to reach a certain emotional balance to attract the right person.
2. Second is recognizing all the signs and messages the universe gives you, which tend to come in mysterious codes.
3. The third is healing yourself within the lessons to achieve higher levels of emotional balance.
“Don’t try to comprehend with your mind. Your minds are very limited. Use your intuition.” ― Madeleine L’Engle
On a journey to find your soulmate, the experiences you have are meant to teach you lessons on your emotional imbalances. There is always some baggage that you need to get out of the way as well as ideas that you may need to get out of the way about who your soulmate really is.
For example, you may think that your soulmate has to get along with one of your best qualities. The truth may be that you need to be challenged to develop this quality, therefore your soulmate may be meant to be very different on one big quality.
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However, that will change with as you get more in touch and expand your quality through the challenges.
Intuition works mysteriously, so it is important to look for signs, connections, mysterious coincidences, feelings, etc. Once you get the hang of this, you can start trusting it and putting your ego aside.
This will lead you to make huge leaps in your journey to finding your soulmate. This process also gives you the power to stop searching. you always tend to meet people when you’re not looking so hard anyway.
You are just surrendering yourself to the experience. As long as you put yourself out there, things are bound to happen. As you put the agenda of the ego aside, you stop wanting things so badly, which always ends up working against you.
In the process, it’s important to use this perspective to get over obstacles. Otherwise, you may just drag yourself down for no reason. A failed date can then simply be a message for you of a deeper meaning of what you need to learn.
Sure, it’s painful to experience failure, but it is important to let it pass through without judgment so you can see the meaning afterward.
Take some space and time to reflect on this with a calm mind can be very healing. If you beat yourself up over it, you may never see the meaning and will add more baggage that you’ll have to eventually get through.
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Taking this perspective toward finding true love can be immensely fun and fulfilling! Then your soulmate can show up when you don’t expect, and you may only recognize this after a few dates.
If you want a meaningful relationship in your life, which will stick with you till the end of time, you cannot rely on shortcuts for that.
You have to work hard if you want something worthwhile. Trust yourself. Have faith in yourself. Rely on yourself. As long as you know what you want and your intentions are pure, you will find what you are looking for.
Written by Matthew Butcher Originally Published on YourTango
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