4 Things A Man Does If He Wants A Relationship With You

When a man loves you, there are certain things he will do, which he will only do for you. When he wants a relationship with you, he will be different, and trust me, you will know how. Let’s find out what are the things a man does when he loves you and wants to be with you.

Are you dating for quite sometime and still not sure if a man wants a relationship with you?

It doesn’t matter if you’re newly dating or you’ve been dating for a while. You’re probably reading this because you’re wondering what men think and if the man you’ve been giving your precious time and energy to wants a relationship with you.

You might wonder, do I invest more in this man or do I lean back and see what he does?

Do I let a man know my feelings or let him take the lead?

Does he love me or is he waiting for someone else to come along?

When a man is wholeheartedly invested in you, there are certain things that he will do that are clear signs that he’s into you in a big way which answers those nagging questions that keep running around in your head.

By the end of this, you won’t be turning in your bed overthinking his actions.

It’s going to be very clear how to tell if a guy likes you, really likes you or if he’s a player with no intention of committing to you.

Here are four things a man does if he wants a relationship with you.

Related: 5 Things A Man Does When He Falls Deep In Love

4 Things A Man Does If He Wants A Relationship With You

1. The invisible thread.

The first clear sign that his heart is a hook, line, and sinker caught on you is what I call The Invisible Thread.

You could both be at a party talking to other people even in separate places or together but somehow, it feels like you’re still connected, tethered in some way.

You’re both linked by a thread that’s exclusively visible to you.

Whether it’s the way that he looks at you from across the room or when he’s out and about doing other things travelling for work or busy with his kids, he reaches out regularly enough so that you still feel connected.

Also, a man who’s really into you and values connection and intimacy won’t just be physically present on a date, he’ll be 100 per cent with you.

He will pay attention. He won’t just be nodding during your conversations while his eyes are roving around like a lifeguard at the beach.

love someone

2. He wants to know who you are.

He’ll make an effort to ask meaningful questions because he wants to know you better.

It’s a sign a man appreciates your true qualities inside and out.

A man who isn’t emotionally invested in you wouldn’t even bother to talk about the future, ask about your opinions, what your dreams are or even what you did yesterday.

He might just want to get naked with you.

But a man who’s authentically interested in you will want to talk to you, experience things together and share both of your highs and lows.

Forget the guy who disappears at a vital point in his life (or yours) to be alone or who avoids helping you.

It’s like saying you’re important to him— but only up to this point— only when it’s fun or when it suits him.

A man who’s invested in a committed relationship won’t run when life gets more complicated because he will know curve balls are part of life and relationships and he wants to ride the curve balls with you.

3. He wants to see you often.

He wants to see you again and again. If he’s really into you long term, nothing in the world is going to stop him from wanting to see you again.

Men generally aren’t complex creatures. Their actions aren’t too subtle to interpret.

Yes, they can be cagey and cautious but as that fog clears up, bottom line is he just wants to be with you again and as soon as possible. He will find ways to make it happen.

He might even drop by your work because he just happened to be in the area.

To help you with this, I made a must-see video where I explain the secret signal a man needs to open his heart and commit to you. What I share may certainly surprise you.

Related: 11 Types Of Men You Will Come Across When Dating Online

4. He will be your best friend and ally.

He will be your comrade. Not only is he attracted to you, he wants to be your best friend and ally.

He will go to war for you.

He will not want to be at war with you.

I’ve been in relationships with men who had no interest in being my comrade.

They were so ego-driven or so detached from the relationship that it almost never ran smoothly.

There was always a bump in the road.

My first relationship wasn’t like this.

It was easy and kind, though after struggling with some men in future relationships, I learned pretty quickly that men who really want you are invested in unity.

They will be there for you.

While you may not always agree on things, he will try his hardest to find common ground with you so that you can both feel comfortable and resolved.

He won’t give you unrelenting attitude and the ego treatment because he cherishes you and the relationship more than his ego.

It’s all about the willingness to understand each other because you both value partnership.

So there you have it.

The four things a man does if he wants a relationship with you.

If you’ve got a man in your life who’s not doing these things, then I’m very sorry to say he’s either just not that invested or he’s simply incapable of true intimacy.

It doesn’t matter why he’s not fully committed to you, whether he’s insecure, has emotional issues, is emotionally unavailable or just waiting for someone better.

Not that there is someone better than you, though he’s thinking there’s someone else out there who will be more aligned with him in some way.

Then that’s 100 per cent OK.

Let him go.

I want you to be with a man who prioritizes you, who wants to know you, who loves to spend time with you, who communicates with you regularly.

This is what an emotionally connected loving relationship looks like and this is how to know if he wants a serious relationship with beautiful, gorgeous you.

Even if it’s the early stages of dating, it shouldn’t feel like a battle. It should largely flow. If a healthy relationship with a man is not flowing, don’t try to force it. Focus on what you really want.

Related: 10 Signs He Is In Love With You

If he’s not working with you, then know there really are many more men to meet who will be what you’re looking for. There is no such thing as one man on the planet for you. There are plenty.

Secret signal that makes him commit to you?

To experience the kind of love that melts away your fears, pain and disillusion, then you DO NOT want to miss this.

Find out exactly what good men want to see before they will take the next step and commit forever.


Written by Nadine Piat
Originally appeared in Attract The One

Republished with permission.
4 Things a Man Does If He Wants a Relationship With You
things man does if he wants relationship you Pin
he wants a relationship with you

Published On:

Last updated on:

Disclaimer: The informational content on The Minds Journal have been created and reviewed by qualified mental health professionals. They are intended solely for educational and self-awareness purposes and should not be used as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing emotional distress or have concerns about your mental health, please seek help from a licensed mental health professional or healthcare provider.

Leave a Comment

Today's Horoscope

Accurate Daily Horoscope for 12 Zodiac Signs

Daily Horoscope 21 July 2025: Prediction For Each Zodiac Sign

🌟 Ready to unlock the secrets of 21 July, 2025? Discover your personalized horoscope and see what the stars have in store for you today! ✨🔮

Latest Quizzes

Which DC Superhero Are You (And No You Can't Just Pick Batman)

Which DC Superhero Are You? Take This Quiz To Find Out!

You don't superspeed or heat vision, just be your honest self and let your instincts do the talking.

Latest Quotes

Weekly Horoscope 21 July To 27 July part one

Weekly Horoscope 21 July To 27 July

Weekly Horoscope 21 July To 27 July Aries (March 21 – April 19)Creative fire & leadership vibes come, but you’ll need to manage power struggles & emotional intensity midweek. Conflict in love or work can happen. Pause before reacting. Structure your originality for lasting impact. Taurus (April 20 – May 20)It’s an ideal time to…

Readers Blog

Caption This Image and Selected Wisepicks – 20 July 2025

Ready to unleash your inner wordsmith? ✨??☺️ Now’s your chance to show off your wit, charm, or sheer genius in just one line! Whether it’s laugh-out-loud funny or surprisingly deep, we want to hear it. Submit your funniest, wittiest, or most thought-provoking caption in the comments. We’ll pick 15+ winners to be featured on our…

Latest Articles

When a man loves you, there are certain things he will do, which he will only do for you. When he wants a relationship with you, he will be different, and trust me, you will know how. Let’s find out what are the things a man does when he loves you and wants to be with you.

Are you dating for quite sometime and still not sure if a man wants a relationship with you?

It doesn’t matter if you’re newly dating or you’ve been dating for a while. You’re probably reading this because you’re wondering what men think and if the man you’ve been giving your precious time and energy to wants a relationship with you.

You might wonder, do I invest more in this man or do I lean back and see what he does?

Do I let a man know my feelings or let him take the lead?

Does he love me or is he waiting for someone else to come along?

When a man is wholeheartedly invested in you, there are certain things that he will do that are clear signs that he’s into you in a big way which answers those nagging questions that keep running around in your head.

By the end of this, you won’t be turning in your bed overthinking his actions.

It’s going to be very clear how to tell if a guy likes you, really likes you or if he’s a player with no intention of committing to you.

Here are four things a man does if he wants a relationship with you.

Related: 5 Things A Man Does When He Falls Deep In Love

4 Things A Man Does If He Wants A Relationship With You

1. The invisible thread.

The first clear sign that his heart is a hook, line, and sinker caught on you is what I call The Invisible Thread.

You could both be at a party talking to other people even in separate places or together but somehow, it feels like you’re still connected, tethered in some way.

You’re both linked by a thread that’s exclusively visible to you.

Whether it’s the way that he looks at you from across the room or when he’s out and about doing other things travelling for work or busy with his kids, he reaches out regularly enough so that you still feel connected.

Also, a man who’s really into you and values connection and intimacy won’t just be physically present on a date, he’ll be 100 per cent with you.

He will pay attention. He won’t just be nodding during your conversations while his eyes are roving around like a lifeguard at the beach.

love someone

2. He wants to know who you are.

He’ll make an effort to ask meaningful questions because he wants to know you better.

It’s a sign a man appreciates your true qualities inside and out.

A man who isn’t emotionally invested in you wouldn’t even bother to talk about the future, ask about your opinions, what your dreams are or even what you did yesterday.

He might just want to get naked with you.

But a man who’s authentically interested in you will want to talk to you, experience things together and share both of your highs and lows.

Forget the guy who disappears at a vital point in his life (or yours) to be alone or who avoids helping you.

It’s like saying you’re important to him— but only up to this point— only when it’s fun or when it suits him.

A man who’s invested in a committed relationship won’t run when life gets more complicated because he will know curve balls are part of life and relationships and he wants to ride the curve balls with you.

3. He wants to see you often.

He wants to see you again and again. If he’s really into you long term, nothing in the world is going to stop him from wanting to see you again.

Men generally aren’t complex creatures. Their actions aren’t too subtle to interpret.

Yes, they can be cagey and cautious but as that fog clears up, bottom line is he just wants to be with you again and as soon as possible. He will find ways to make it happen.

He might even drop by your work because he just happened to be in the area.

To help you with this, I made a must-see video where I explain the secret signal a man needs to open his heart and commit to you. What I share may certainly surprise you.

Related: 11 Types Of Men You Will Come Across When Dating Online

4. He will be your best friend and ally.

He will be your comrade. Not only is he attracted to you, he wants to be your best friend and ally.

He will go to war for you.

He will not want to be at war with you.

I’ve been in relationships with men who had no interest in being my comrade.

They were so ego-driven or so detached from the relationship that it almost never ran smoothly.

There was always a bump in the road.

My first relationship wasn’t like this.

It was easy and kind, though after struggling with some men in future relationships, I learned pretty quickly that men who really want you are invested in unity.

They will be there for you.

While you may not always agree on things, he will try his hardest to find common ground with you so that you can both feel comfortable and resolved.

He won’t give you unrelenting attitude and the ego treatment because he cherishes you and the relationship more than his ego.

It’s all about the willingness to understand each other because you both value partnership.

So there you have it.

The four things a man does if he wants a relationship with you.

If you’ve got a man in your life who’s not doing these things, then I’m very sorry to say he’s either just not that invested or he’s simply incapable of true intimacy.

It doesn’t matter why he’s not fully committed to you, whether he’s insecure, has emotional issues, is emotionally unavailable or just waiting for someone better.

Not that there is someone better than you, though he’s thinking there’s someone else out there who will be more aligned with him in some way.

Then that’s 100 per cent OK.

Let him go.

I want you to be with a man who prioritizes you, who wants to know you, who loves to spend time with you, who communicates with you regularly.

This is what an emotionally connected loving relationship looks like and this is how to know if he wants a serious relationship with beautiful, gorgeous you.

Even if it’s the early stages of dating, it shouldn’t feel like a battle. It should largely flow. If a healthy relationship with a man is not flowing, don’t try to force it. Focus on what you really want.

Related: 10 Signs He Is In Love With You

If he’s not working with you, then know there really are many more men to meet who will be what you’re looking for. There is no such thing as one man on the planet for you. There are plenty.

Secret signal that makes him commit to you?

To experience the kind of love that melts away your fears, pain and disillusion, then you DO NOT want to miss this.

Find out exactly what good men want to see before they will take the next step and commit forever.


Written by Nadine Piat
Originally appeared in Attract The One

Republished with permission.
4 Things a Man Does If He Wants a Relationship With You
things man does if he wants relationship you Pin
he wants a relationship with you

Published On:

Last updated on:

Anirban Das

Leave a Comment

    Leave a Comment