So how do you cut all the energetic cords?
People may not resonate with the part of you that is “different” and at odds with their outlook on life. Releasing the ties to the parental energy means first and foremost to release the energy from your own mind and emotions. It is about looking within and finding out to what extent you live by your parents’ set of illusions, by their do’s and don’ts which were based on fear and judgment.
Once you are clear about this and you are able to let that go, you will be free to forgive them and really “leave the parental house.” It is only after you sever the cords on the inner level and take responsibility for your own life that you can really let your parents be.
You will have clearly said “no” to their fears and illusions, but at the same time, you will see that your parents are not identical with their fears and illusions. They also are cosmic travelers simply trying to fulfill their soul mission.
Once you feel this, you can feel their innocence and you can forgive. They did their best, to love you, in a way that they could. If you can feel in your heart that they did their best, even when best seems lackluster – they did what they knew how to do.
In a sense you have been the victim of your parents – your parents might have represented ego-based consciousness in your childhood. You have temporarily and partly lived according to their illusions. In a way, you had no choice, as their child.
However, to transcend your sense of being the victim here is one of the most powerful breakthroughs you can have in your life.
Want to know more about how family karma works, and what you can do about it? Read If You Experience Any of These 5 Signs You are the Carrier of Your Family Karma
How can you transform family patterns?
It takes deep introspection and sometimes meditation to get to the core of any re-occurring problems in your life.
They are the result of behavioral patterns that, once fully understood, you can start to change.
It takes time and it all starts with the choice: ‘ I want to be my own master, my own energy my own soul, my own karma-carrier. I am My own carrier.”
You are filled with power! One of the first steps is simply believing that you are…
Family karma can be a tricky thing to navigate and get rid of. But, you need to be patient about it and work towards knowing everything you can about it. Trust yourself and focus on modifying your family patterns, as this can help you achieve your goal.
If you want to know more about family karma, and how you can escape from it, then check out this video below:
By: Leda De Zwaan