10 Pertinent Facts About Loneliness And How It Effects The Mind And Body

Quite naturally, Loneliness has become a serious public health problem for the millennials.

Human beings are social beings and we are wired to share our stories and feelings in person

What do we do when we interact with others in person?

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We use our body to communicate our intentions, emotions and feelings. Our gestures, facial expressions, tone of voice, body language are all effective ways to communicate with one another.

We share mirror neurons that allow us to imitate each other’s feeling consciously or unconsciously.

For example when I see you smiling, mirror neurons for smiling fire up in my brain, initiating the activity of smiling. I experience immediately and effortlessly what you are feeling.  And when you see me matching your emotional state, you feel understood and this becomes the basis of strong bonds that we form with each other.

Our brains and bodies are wired for heart based face to face interactions for our overall being and development but due to the advent of social media, digital interactions have take over the personal face to face connect.

And therefore, the paradox of the millennial generation is that with the substantial increase in online friends & followers, the percentage of people who feel lonely has also risen exponentially.

It is estimated that over 40 % of the population will feel the pangs of loneliness at some point or the other.

There has been a lot of research to study the causes and effects of loneliness in the millennial generation.


Here is a list of 10 pertinent facts about loneliness that can help you to understand and combat the menace of loneliness:

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1. It is not about the quantity but the subjective quality of your relationships

According to psychologists, there are two types of loneliness: Subjective and objective

Objective loneliness refers to the being physically isolated while subjective loneliness refers to the feeling of being alone even when you’re physically or socially surrounded by lots of people.

Subjective Loneliness does not depend on the number of friends or followers you have on social media but the quality of your closest and intimate relationships.

It is about how connected and understood you feel in your relationships.

You could be having a large number of friends in your social circles but if you do not find anyone with whom who you can connect deeply mentally or emotionally; you are bound to feel lonely even in a crowd of superfluous social contacts.


2. Over 60% of lonely people are married

Did you know that more than 60% of people who feel lonely are actually married?

Research conducted by a lot of psychologists shows that when married couples start feeling that they cannot share their deepest thoughts and feelings with their significant other, they feel highly disconnected and alone despite of being in a congenial relationship.

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Shweta Advanihttps://writershwetaadvani.wordpress.com/
An HR consultant by profession, a slam poet and freelance writer.Avid reader,dancer and yoga enthusiast. When I am not reading or writing, I star gaze or take long walks in nature.
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