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Self Harm: What It Is And How To Deal With It

Self-harm is not to be ridiculed at. It requires to be understood and empathized with.

‘Self’ and ‘harm’ – the two contradictory words do not seem to fit together. Why would someone want to harm themselves when everyone is trying to struggle through life only to afford a better living, a peaceful existence and constantly working to stay alive?

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Understanding self harm:

What is self harm?

Self-harm, or self-mutilation describes any behaviour of deliberately inflicting pain and damage to your own body. It most frequently takes the form of cutting, scratching, punching, pricking, biting, stabbing, burning or non-lethal overdoses. It also encompasses consciously taken actions that can cause injury no matter how minor or highly risky behaviour it is.(1) It is most often associated with an underlying mental health issue which goes undetected due to the lack of awareness.

Remember, it is distinct from suicide attempts. Even though it might genuinely look like a suicide attempt but it usually isn’t so.

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When someone is having symptoms of depression, such as low mood, lack of motivation, the fundamental reference point of the mental health issue is clear – we know that the person has depression. What further complicates the understanding of self injurious act is a lack of reference point. People do not get a legitimate reference point to understand the motivation behind self-harm or what the self-injurious person is trying to accomplish.

Self harm is one of the most complicated behaviours associated with mental illnesses and often goes misunderstood for the amount of gore and stigma associated with it.

The statistical data related to self-harm will surprise you with one analysis of self-injury(2) across more than 40 countries finding that about 17% of all people will self-harm during their lifetime and the average age of the first incident of self-harm is 13.

 

Breaking down the myths around self-harm:

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Self-injurious acts are often very bloody and frightening in nature, instigating a panicked reaction in people close to the self-injurious person.

When others see deep wounds and scars, covered with blood, they become panic stricken and get more concerned about taking measures to alleviate the physical pain. Such perturbation interrupts people’s ability to explore deeper into the ‘whys’ of self-harm.

Alongside these, there works a number of myths and misunderstandings associated with self-harm that not only impede a clear comprehension of it but also reduces the chances of self injurious people from seeking professional help. For this very reason, about 50% of people seek help for their self-harm but only from friends instead of professionals.(3)

Negative stereotypes can be paralyzing. If the myths can be challenged, there is a high chance of cognizance emerging out of this issue.

Here are a few myths about self-harm:

  • People self-harm to seek attention- Many people who self-harm do so discreetly for the very reason of not wanting to be tagged as an attention seeker. These people are traumatized beyond having the courage to face criticism for their behaviour which they know isn’t for seeking attention.

 

  • Only females self-harm – Boys and girls may engage with distinct self-harming behaviours or have different reasons behind inflicting pain on themselves.(4) This does not make self-harming actions any less serious when it comes to men. Self harm in men are frequently under-reported. While women are more likely to self-harm, males may represent at least 35% of total self-injury cases.(5)

 

  • People who harm themselves, enjoy it – People tend to believe that the risk and pain associated with the self-harming actions are thrilling to the self-injurious people. But the truth is that the pain these people feel are no different from pain that others feel. For some, they want to get over the numbing feeling left behind by depression, even if it hurts. Others have described this pain as punishment.(6)

 

  • Self-harm is Gothic- While there are some research suggesting a link, there is no conclusive evidence of the fact that self-harm is a part of any particular youth subculture(‘emo’ or ‘goth’).

We have got all the facts about self-harm as clear as a crystal but what is the motivation behind these kinds of self-harming behaviours? What are these people trying to accomplish?

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Shreyasi Debnath
An editor and writer keeping keen interest in painting, creative writing and reading. I did my Masters in Clinical and Counselling Psychology and have been a counselling psychologist at a primary school for the past 1 year. I love doing absolutely anything that mends a mind and soothes a soul. Most often than not, I ponder over to come up with poems. A wandering soul in search for meaning.
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