How To Be Adorable: 7 Simple Tips

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Have you always wanted to be adorable, but never quite could put a finger on how to achieve that? After all, who doesn’t want to be adored, right?

Adoration is something that almost everyone desires, in secret. And, why not? Experiencing love, care and affection from everyone is what makes being adored one of the best feelings ever. But sometimes, being adorable is easier said than done.

If you want to become an adorable person in the eyes of everyone, then there are a few things you can do. Read on to know more about how you can do this.

 

7 Best Ways You Can Be The Most Adorable Person

 

1. Be yourself

You are unique and there is no one in this universe like you. Be comfortable in your skin and be proud of who you are and what you are. It is easier said than done and many of us are unable to do it. Once you love being yourself, your inner self shines, and it reflects in your persona.

Do you always succeed at being true to yourself? Read 10 Signs To Know That You Are Being True To Yourself

You are confident and unafraid of your flaws. You are capable of making people accept you with your shortcomings. They know that you don’t live in a shell of falsehood and you are brave enough to reveal your true self. This is what makes you beautiful inside out.

2. Be honest

No one likes fake people. Make sure that you are honest in whatever you do. No matter how uncomfortable it might get, have the strength to be an honest person. Honesty often creates enemies but it also attracts the right people.

There will be many people who will disapprove of your unfettered behavior. Pay no heed to them. The right ones will see that you are bereft of selfishness and false ego. You don’t use falsehood to manipulate people or situations.

It is tough to be honest but you will be adored and loved for it.

 

3. Develop a healthy sense of humor

People with a good sense of humor have a way of making almost everything fun and positive. A good sense of humor is an asset and people who possess it are adored widely.

Have you ever been with someone who an amazing sense of humor? Read 11 Things You NEED to Know Before Dating A Woman Fluent In Sarcasm

For women, this is an important factor in a relationship. A Stanford University research showed girls showed more positive feelings and a sense of reward in response to humor than boys did.

 

4. Have an open mind

As human beings, we change as the world around us changes. We imbibe new things and change knowingly and unknowingly. Our thinking and mindsets also change and we begin to look differently at the societal norms that have been in existence for several years.

Mindless cutting of trees and setting up of factories is no longer viewed as progress. People who have dared to think differently have forced the rich and powerful to be responsible for the environment and for global warming. Wars and forceful capturing of other sovereign nations, human rights violations, etc. are now challenged by new evolutionary thoughts.

You may have your own stand on the above issues but it is essential that you have an open mind. An intelligent person can always digest others’ points of view without being affected. You will truly attract someone who loves by how you keep your original views intact. Taking on conventional thinking and exposing your own thoughts on issues requires intelligent and fluid thinking. It is not something we come by frequently and when you exhibit these important traits, you are adored for solid reasons.

 

5. Help others

It is not difficult or uncommon to come across selfish people. They are always too engrossed with themselves, their needs and wants and hardly have any concern about others. When you meet them they will discuss their problems only and will have nothing much to discuss or talk about.

Do you like such people? No one likes them and they really don’t deserve much attention either.

The best way to be adored by others is to be just the opposite of this. Being helpful is a great quality to have. Thinking about others and making an effort to help others in distress is the need of the hour. The world would be a much better place if more and more people took note of the misery around them. Social ills, hunger, and poverty can all be overcome at a much faster pace only if there are more people willing to help others.

Helpful people attract and earn a lot of adoration. You can make a great deal of difference by devoting a few hours of your day regularly to help others. If time is not what you can spare, donate something towards a social cause that is closest to your heart.

 

6. Be selfless

Being selfless is not so easy because the world we live in is a selfish one. Selfless people are the people who show a new way to live and inspire people to change for the better.

Selfless people have the power to change the world and whenever they have decided to take on this world, they have made a huge difference. Thousands of people have accepted them as their hero, their role models. They are continued to be adored by a large number of people.

Martin Luther King Jr, Mother Teresa, Nelson Mandela, Gandhi, and Buddha are some of the most selfless people the world has seen. They carried the burden of others on their shoulders and so have earned an eternal place in the hearts of the people they influenced.

Do you have selflessness in you? If not, it’s time you start changing yourself.

 

7. Be humble

Humility is a beautiful trait in one’s character. Unfortunately, most role models and icons lack this characteristic. Speaking loudly about their successes and achievements has become the trend. Whatever it may be, the adage “Actions speak louder than words” has still not lost its meaning. It still holds true.

Do you believe in the power of humility? Read 5 Ways Gratitude Can Change Your Life

Being humble is a great quality to have in yourself, and people with great strength of character possess it. Humility is not the forte of domineering and brash person. People with humility are becoming exceedingly rare. Humble people barely get recognized. But wherever they are they certainly make things better for people living around them. They are adored deeply for quietly bringing so much good.

Wanting to be adored is easy, and working for it is not. If you want to be seen as an adorable person, you will have to be the most authentic version of yourself. Showing the real you, with both your pros and cons will make people respect you and love you more. And most importantly, adore you more!

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